Nancy Ferree-Clark - "The Compassion of Christ" (June 4, 1989)
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Speaker | A reading from the gospel | 0:04 |
according to St. Luke | 0:06 | |
Soon afterward Jesus went to a city called Nain, | 0:08 | |
and his disciples and a great crowd | 0:13 | |
went with him. | 0:15 | |
As he drew near to the gate of the city | 0:17 | |
behold, a man who had died was being carried out. | 0:20 | |
The only son of his mother | 0:24 | |
and she was a widow. | 0:26 | |
And the large crowd from the city | 0:28 | |
was with her. | 0:30 | |
And when the Lord saw her | 0:33 | |
he had compassion on her | 0:34 | |
and said to her, | 0:37 | |
"Do not weep." | 0:39 | |
And he came and touched the bier | 0:41 | |
and the bearers stood still. | 0:43 | |
And he said, | 0:46 | |
"Young man, I say to you, arise." | 0:47 | |
And the dead man sat up | 0:52 | |
and began to speak, | 0:54 | |
and he gave him to his mother. | 0:56 | |
Fear seized them all | 0:59 | |
and they glorified God saying, | 1:01 | |
"A great prophet has risen among us!" | 1:04 | |
and "God has visited his people!" | 1:07 | |
And this report concerning him | 1:11 | |
spread through the whole of Judea | 1:13 | |
and all the surrounding country. | 1:15 | |
This is the word of the Lord. | 1:19 | |
There is a story in Buddhist tradition | 1:27 | |
about a meeting that is suppose to have | 1:31 | |
taken place one day between | 1:33 | |
the Buddha himself | 1:34 | |
and an odd little creature, | 1:36 | |
known as the Monkey God. | 1:38 | |
After the fashion of most monkeys, | 1:42 | |
he was apparently impudent, ingenuous | 1:44 | |
and rather ludicrous | 1:47 | |
but above all he was very vain | 1:49 | |
and very boastful. | 1:51 | |
These qualities become apparent | 1:53 | |
as soon as he and the Buddha | 1:55 | |
came face to face | 1:57 | |
because the very first thing | 1:58 | |
he tries to do, | 2:00 | |
is to prove that he, | 2:02 | |
the Monkey God is just as powerful | 2:03 | |
as the great Buddha himself | 2:06 | |
if not indeed more so. | 2:08 | |
In order to demonstrate this, | 2:11 | |
he sets about performing a number of | 2:13 | |
rather astonishing tricks. | 2:14 | |
The kind you might expect from a monkey | 2:17 | |
under the circumstances. | 2:19 | |
And all the while he's performing them, | 2:21 | |
the Buddha sits there | 2:23 | |
politely attentive | 2:25 | |
but giving no particular sign | 2:27 | |
of being impressed. | 2:29 | |
Finally, | 2:31 | |
when he's plainly at his wits end, | 2:32 | |
the Monkey God pulls out his best act. | 2:34 | |
Which consists of taking one | 2:37 | |
enormously leap into the air | 2:39 | |
and disappearing from sight completely. | 2:41 | |
He is gone for 5 minutes | 2:43 | |
or 5 centuries, | 2:45 | |
no one seems to know for sure. | 2:47 | |
But eventually he comes back | 2:49 | |
and stands around, | 2:51 | |
waiting for the Buddha | 2:53 | |
to ask him about his venture. | 2:54 | |
But the Buddha says nothing at all. | 2:56 | |
The Monkey God can't stand | 2:59 | |
the silence any longer | 3:01 | |
so he tells him anyway, | 3:02 | |
explaining that he's just come back | 3:03 | |
from the outer most limits of the Universe. | 3:06 | |
And that perhaps, | 3:08 | |
this is a journey that even the Buddha | 3:09 | |
might find reason to admire. | 3:12 | |
Then he stands around for a little while longer, | 3:15 | |
hoping that this time | 3:17 | |
the Buddha will ask him | 3:18 | |
what he saw there. | 3:20 | |
Again, there is no sound | 3:21 | |
except for the sound | 3:24 | |
of his own heart pounding. | 3:25 | |
And again, he is forced to answer | 3:27 | |
the question that has not been asked. | 3:29 | |
He explains in detail how | 3:33 | |
when he reached | 3:35 | |
the outer most limits of the Universe, | 3:36 | |
he saw there | 3:38 | |
5 huge granite pillars, | 3:39 | |
which extended up and up and up | 3:42 | |
until the tops of them | 3:44 | |
were lost in the clouds. | 3:45 | |
And what does the Buddha think of that | 3:48 | |
he asks, | 3:50 | |
looking up into the Buddhas great | 3:50 | |
silent face. | 3:53 | |
And this time the Buddha does answer | 3:55 | |
but not in words. | 3:57 | |
Instead of saying anything, | 4:00 | |
the Buddha simply raises his hand | 4:02 | |
and holds it up there | 4:05 | |
before the Monkey God's eyes. | 4:07 | |
As the Monkey God looks at it, | 4:10 | |
his attention is drawn to the Buddhas fingers | 4:11 | |
and as he gazes at them, | 4:14 | |
he sees them not as fingers | 4:16 | |
but as 5 huge granite pillars | 4:19 | |
which extend up and up and up | 4:22 | |
until the tops of them | 4:25 | |
are lost in the clouds. | 4:26 | |
I'm grateful to Frederick Bikaner | 4:31 | |
for recounting this story | 4:33 | |
in one of his sermons. | 4:34 | |
For it seems to me | 4:36 | |
to exemplify one of the great dilemmas | 4:38 | |
that we face in the church. | 4:40 | |
We preachers can spend inordinate | 4:43 | |
amounts of energy | 4:46 | |
doing all sorts of verbal contortions | 4:47 | |
in an attempt to describe God. | 4:50 | |
When what we really need to do | 4:53 | |
is to point toward the reality | 4:55 | |
of God's presence in your life | 4:56 | |
and mine. | 4:58 | |
Words were invented to deal | 5:00 | |
with the world of time and space. | 5:01 | |
Where as by definition, | 5:03 | |
God exists beyond | 5:05 | |
such categories all together. | 5:06 | |
And so, | 5:09 | |
in our attempt to talk about God | 5:10 | |
we sometimes mix up the truth | 5:12 | |
about the reality of God's presence. | 5:15 | |
With their own notions | 5:18 | |
of what it is that God ought to be about. | 5:19 | |
This is especially the case | 5:22 | |
when we bump up against | 5:24 | |
some part of God's character | 5:25 | |
that seems especially difficult | 5:27 | |
to understand. | 5:28 | |
For an instance, | 5:30 | |
you may have heard someone proclaim that | 5:31 | |
"God helps those who help themselves." | 5:33 | |
Perhaps you, yourself have vouch | 5:37 | |
for the truth of this statement, | 5:39 | |
declaring that the bible tells you so. | 5:40 | |
But in fact, | 5:43 | |
the bible says something quite the opposite. | 5:45 | |
Namely, that God raises the poor | 5:48 | |
from the dust | 5:50 | |
and lifts the needy from the ash heap, | 5:52 | |
making them sit with nobles, | 5:55 | |
as we read in today's Psalm. | 5:57 | |
As the bible tells it, | 6:00 | |
God is a compassionate God | 6:01 | |
who helps those | 6:03 | |
who either can't help themselves | 6:04 | |
or for whatever reason | 6:06 | |
have chosen not to do so. | 6:07 | |
This became perfectly clear | 6:10 | |
in God's self revelation | 6:12 | |
through Jesus Christ. | 6:13 | |
The tough thing though | 6:15 | |
is that even when we say that, | 6:16 | |
we haven't grasp | 6:18 | |
the full meaning of this reality. | 6:19 | |
For words can not contain it. | 6:22 | |
Only by pointing to the experience | 6:25 | |
of another | 6:27 | |
and hopefully, | 6:28 | |
someday having that experience | 6:29 | |
for ourselves | 6:31 | |
do we begin to know | 6:32 | |
the full measure of God's mercy. | 6:34 | |
Seen in that light | 6:37 | |
our gospel lesson provides us | 6:38 | |
with the powerful revelation | 6:41 | |
of God's character. | 6:43 | |
Which is easier to point to | 6:44 | |
than to describe. | 6:46 | |
There we find Jesus | 6:49 | |
and his disciples | 6:50 | |
as they draw near to the gate | 6:51 | |
of the city of Nain, | 6:53 | |
where they meet a funeral procession. | 6:55 | |
Which was leaving the city | 6:57 | |
to bury a dead man. | 6:58 | |
The man who had died | 7:01 | |
was the only son of his mother. | 7:02 | |
They soon learned | 7:04 | |
and she was a widow. | 7:05 | |
Undoubtedly, | 7:08 | |
hers is a hard life already. | 7:09 | |
Due to the inferior position | 7:11 | |
granted to widows | 7:13 | |
in those days. | 7:14 | |
In Hebrew law, | 7:16 | |
she had absolutely no rights | 7:17 | |
of inheritance. | 7:19 | |
This strange neglect | 7:22 | |
may have been due to the fact | 7:23 | |
that the Hebrews believed | 7:24 | |
that death before old age | 7:25 | |
was a judgment for sin. | 7:28 | |
Which was extended to the wife | 7:30 | |
that was left. | 7:32 | |
Widow in Hebrew, | 7:34 | |
resembles the word | 7:36 | |
meaning "be mute". | 7:37 | |
Suggesting the muteness | 7:39 | |
induced by a so called | 7:40 | |
"disgraceful widowhood". | 7:41 | |
In the case of this particular widow, | 7:45 | |
her plight was even more tragic | 7:46 | |
as this was her only son who had died. | 7:49 | |
Bereft of both men in her life, | 7:52 | |
she is without identity, | 7:55 | |
security | ||
or companionship. | 7:58 | |
Thus Jesus looked upon her | 8:01 | |
and all of her sadness, | 8:03 | |
her despair, her hopelessness | 8:04 | |
and was moved to have | 8:07 | |
compassion on her. | 8:09 | |
This may sound like a common response to us. | 8:11 | |
Wouldn't any of us be moved to compassion? | 8:14 | |
But a careful look at this text | 8:18 | |
reveals the depth | 8:20 | |
of this divine compassion. | 8:21 | |
The Greek word for compassion | 8:24 | |
used only in reference to Jesus | 8:26 | |
or the Father, | 8:28 | |
refers to the entrails of the body | 8:29 | |
or as we might say the guts. | 8:32 | |
When we say Jesus was moved | 8:36 | |
to feel compassion for this widow, | 8:38 | |
in his gut, | 8:40 | |
this is obviously | 8:42 | |
something quite different | 8:43 | |
from passing feelings of sorrow | 8:44 | |
or of sympathy. | 8:46 | |
Rather it extended | 8:48 | |
to the most vulnerable part | 8:49 | |
of his being. | 8:51 | |
It is related to the Hebrew word | 8:53 | |
for compassion, | 8:55 | |
which refers to the womb of Yahweh. | 8:56 | |
When Jesus was moved to compassion, | 9:01 | |
we can say that the womb of Yahweh trembled. | 9:03 | |
This word reminds us that | 9:07 | |
the source of all life | 9:09 | |
remains connected to the creation | 9:10 | |
which he, | 9:13 | |
perhaps better referred to | 9:14 | |
as she, in this instance, | 9:15 | |
gives birth to. | 9:17 | |
Much like a mother | 9:20 | |
as forever bonded to her child | 9:21 | |
but even more so. | 9:23 | |
As the prophet Isaiah writes, | 9:25 | |
"Can a woman forget her sucking child, | 9:27 | |
that she should have no compassion | 9:30 | |
on the son of her womb? | 9:31 | |
Even these may forget, | 9:33 | |
yet I will not forget you. | 9:35 | |
I have carved you on the palm of my hand." | 9:38 | |
says the Lord. | 9:41 | |
This depth of feeling | 9:44 | |
was revealed time and time again | 9:45 | |
in scriptures | 9:47 | |
as Jesus ministered to his people | 9:48 | |
when he saw the crowd harassed | 9:50 | |
and dejected like sheep | 9:52 | |
without a shepherd. | 9:54 | |
When he saw the blind, | 9:56 | |
the deaf, | 9:57 | |
the paralyzed being brought to him. | 9:58 | |
When he noticed | 10:01 | |
that the thousands who followed him | 10:02 | |
were tired and hungry. | 10:03 | |
Through Christ, it became clear | 10:07 | |
that God has established | 10:09 | |
solidarity with us | 10:10 | |
whatever our predicament. | 10:12 | |
We know that God has embraced | 10:14 | |
everything human | 10:16 | |
with infinite tenderness | 10:17 | |
including our pain and grief. | 10:19 | |
Well, this is certainly all good to know about | 10:23 | |
you may be thinking. | 10:25 | |
But why all this emphasis on | 10:26 | |
Christ suffering with us? | 10:28 | |
The widow's son | 10:31 | |
was brought back to life, wasn't he? | 10:32 | |
Isn't it the cure that really counts? | 10:34 | |
Isn't that that proof of God's love towards us? | 10:37 | |
Beware the limitations | 10:41 | |
such a pragmatic view imposes on this story. | 10:43 | |
Yes, Jesus did bring new life | 10:47 | |
to those he met | 10:49 | |
but it was out of his great compassion | 10:51 | |
that such feeling and healing emerged. | 10:53 | |
He did not cure to prove | 10:56 | |
or to impress | 10:58 | |
or to convince. | 11:00 | |
Jesus' cure was the natural expression | 11:01 | |
of his being our God. | 11:04 | |
We know too well | 11:08 | |
how hollow a cure can seem | 11:09 | |
when performed without compassion. | 11:11 | |
We all know of men and women | 11:14 | |
who could walk again, | 11:15 | |
see again or speak again | 11:17 | |
but whose hearts remained dark | 11:19 | |
and embittered. | 11:20 | |
A genuine cure occurs | 11:22 | |
most readily in a genuinely caring | 11:24 | |
atmosphere. | 11:26 | |
Otherwise, | 11:28 | |
the attempt to provide a cure | 11:29 | |
degenerates into manipulation | 11:31 | |
or condescension. | 11:33 | |
And so the truly good news | 11:36 | |
is that our God is not a distant God | 11:37 | |
to be avoided or feared | 11:40 | |
but one who freely participates | 11:42 | |
in the fullness of human struggle. | 11:44 | |
We're not alone in our pain and sorrow. | 11:47 | |
God truly cares for us. | 11:50 | |
Simple as that may sound, | 11:55 | |
it remains difficult to comprehend. | 11:56 | |
We live in a world | 12:00 | |
where the concept of caring | 12:01 | |
becomes more and more ambiguous | 12:02 | |
it seems. | 12:04 | |
Even our language | 12:06 | |
reflects a certain ambivalence | 12:07 | |
toward the word care. | 12:09 | |
"I would take care of him." | 12:11 | |
is just likely to imply | 12:14 | |
a threat, as a promise to show compassion. | 12:16 | |
"I don't care." | 12:20 | |
is a common place response | 12:21 | |
to many choices in life, | 12:22 | |
not least among them being religion. | 12:25 | |
A carefree lifestyle | 12:28 | |
is more attractive to most | 12:30 | |
than a careful one. | 12:31 | |
Genuine care is not ambiguous however. | 12:34 | |
Real care excludes a difference | 12:38 | |
and is the opposite of apathy. | 12:41 | |
The word "care" finds its roots | 12:43 | |
in the Gothic word "lament". | 12:45 | |
The basic meaning of care is therefore | 12:48 | |
"to grieve", | 12:50 | |
"to experience sorrow", | 12:52 | |
"to cry out with". | 12:53 | |
This is especially interesting | 12:57 | |
when you consider | 12:58 | |
that we most often interpret care | 12:59 | |
as an attitude of the strong | 13:01 | |
toward the weak | 13:02 | |
or of the powerful toward the powerless. | 13:04 | |
And in fact, | 13:07 | |
we feel quite uncomfortable | 13:08 | |
with the idea of being with someone | 13:10 | |
in pain, | 13:12 | |
when that's all that we can do. | 13:14 | |
What was your reaction | 13:17 | |
the last time someone asked you | 13:18 | |
to visit a dying friend | 13:20 | |
or a family in mourning? | 13:22 | |
In a provocative article | 13:26 | |
of Dr. Thomas Long | 13:27 | |
of Princeton Theological Seminary, | 13:29 | |
who is a favorite guest preacher of ours | 13:31 | |
here at the chapel. | 13:33 | |
He proposes that our death denying culture | 13:34 | |
has found more and more and more ways | 13:38 | |
to remove ourselves from a process | 13:40 | |
of caring for one another | 13:42 | |
in times of grief. | 13:44 | |
He comments on the way | 13:46 | |
that just a couple of generations ago | 13:48 | |
in the rural south, | 13:49 | |
the community played a much larger role | 13:51 | |
in the period of time | 13:54 | |
immediately following a death. | 13:55 | |
Plates of food were brought | 13:58 | |
to the bereaved family | 13:59 | |
so many that they had to be identified | 14:01 | |
by names written on pieces of | 14:03 | |
little adhesive tapes | 14:05 | |
stuck to the bottom of the plate. | 14:06 | |
The women were charge | 14:09 | |
with the responsibility | 14:10 | |
of washing and preparing the body | 14:11 | |
for burial | 14:13 | |
and the men would make the coffin. | 14:14 | |
Members of the family often with friends, | 14:17 | |
would sit up with the body | 14:19 | |
the night before the funeral. | 14:21 | |
After the burial, | 14:23 | |
there would be an extended season | 14:24 | |
of memorializing, | 14:26 | |
when family and friends would gather | 14:27 | |
for visiting and storytelling. | 14:30 | |
These days seems we do well | 14:33 | |
to find the time to send | 14:35 | |
a sympathy card. | 14:36 | |
Or to take the day off work for the funeral. | 14:47 | |
Thank goodness | 14:50 | |
we have the option of paying | 14:51 | |
for the funeral director | 14:52 | |
to make the necessary arrangements. | 14:54 | |
All the way from preparing the body | 14:56 | |
to providing transportation, | 14:58 | |
we can be sure he will offer it with a smile. | 15:00 | |
But this seems somehow | 15:04 | |
in marked contrast | 15:06 | |
to the early Christian notion | 15:08 | |
that the rituals surrounding | 15:09 | |
the death of a Christian | 15:10 | |
belongs specifically to their own community. | 15:12 | |
Enabling them to care for one another | 15:15 | |
in their time of need. | 15:18 | |
Whereas the Romans | 15:21 | |
avoided touching the body, | 15:22 | |
Christians gave their dead | 15:24 | |
the kiss of peace. | 15:25 | |
Among the Romans, | 15:27 | |
the task of laying out the body | 15:28 | |
was a chore given to a slave. | 15:30 | |
Among Christians, | 15:32 | |
it was a work of love | 15:34 | |
carried out by family and friends. | 15:35 | |
The Romans process to the graveyard | 15:39 | |
to the sound of trumpets and lutes. | 15:40 | |
The Christians | 15:43 | |
to the chanting of songs. | 15:44 | |
An impoverished Roman | 15:47 | |
who died was buried unceremonialy | 15:48 | |
on a common burying ground. | 15:50 | |
Christians raised endowments | 15:53 | |
for the burial of their poor. | 15:55 | |
There's a sense on which | 15:58 | |
all of these actions | 15:59 | |
constituted a frame work | 16:00 | |
of caring within the Christian community. | 16:02 | |
A liturgical act | 16:05 | |
and the best sense of the word | 16:06 | |
which enabled them to act out | 16:08 | |
their beliefs. | 16:11 | |
Don't worry, I'm not proposing | 16:13 | |
that we even attempt to go back | 16:15 | |
to building our own coffins | 16:17 | |
or preparing the bodies ourselves for burial. | 16:18 | |
That's not likely | 16:22 | |
to be a very popular suggestion | 16:22 | |
in anybodies church. | 16:24 | |
I'm simply saying | 16:27 | |
that the challenge we do face | 16:28 | |
as a Christian community | 16:30 | |
is how to reclaim the call of Christ. | 16:32 | |
Being compassionate as your father | 16:35 | |
is compassionate. | 16:38 | |
When we know the depth of caring, | 16:39 | |
those words require of us. | 16:42 | |
In a world that computes time as money | 16:45 | |
it seems to be coming increasingly difficult | 16:48 | |
to give of our time to one another | 16:51 | |
and therefore of ourselves. | 16:53 | |
It seems so much easier | 16:56 | |
simply to pay to have it done for us. | 16:57 | |
Meanwhile, | 17:01 | |
we forego much of the joy | 17:02 | |
that true caring brings to living | 17:04 | |
and that Christian community is all about. | 17:06 | |
It was the bereaved widow's | 17:12 | |
extremely good fortune | 17:13 | |
that she should encountered Jesus | 17:14 | |
just at the time | 17:16 | |
she did outside the city gate. | 17:17 | |
No amount of money | 17:20 | |
could've paid for the care | 17:21 | |
he was about to provide her. | 17:22 | |
"Do not weep" he said. | 17:25 | |
As he gave her | 17:27 | |
one of the greatest gifts | 17:28 | |
a person could ever hope to receive. | 17:30 | |
The gift of unspeakable joy, | 17:33 | |
which accompanies the return of life | 17:35 | |
where there was death. | 17:38 | |
We've been privileged to know that feeling too | 17:41 | |
but perhaps, | 17:43 | |
without realizing where it came from | 17:44 | |
such as the time | 17:47 | |
a love one suddenly recovers | 17:48 | |
after a life threatening illness, | 17:50 | |
such as when we experience forgiveness | 17:53 | |
after being filled with fear | 17:55 | |
and shame, | 17:57 | |
such as when we find ourselves | 17:59 | |
being cared for | 18:01 | |
after feeling lost and alone | 18:03 | |
or in the face of a devastating lost. | 18:06 | |
It is as if God | 18:09 | |
has held up before us | 18:10 | |
not the hand of the Buddha | 18:12 | |
but the figure of a man | 18:14 | |
whose face is marred almost beyond recognition | 18:16 | |
but who can still say to us, | 18:20 | |
"Do not weep, | 18:23 | |
these things | 18:24 | |
have I done for you | 18:26 | |
that my joy may be in you". | 18:28 | |
Thanks be to God. | 18:31 |