Willie J. Jennings - "A Request to Remember" (November 11, 2001)
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Woman | The third lesson is from | 0:16 |
the Gospel According to Saint Luke, the 20th chapter. | 0:17 | |
Some Sadducees, those who say there is no resurrection, | 0:22 | |
came to him and asked him a question. | 0:26 | |
"Teacher, Moses wrote for us that if a man's brother dies, | 0:29 | |
"leaving a wife but no children, | 0:35 | |
"the man shall marry the widow | 0:37 | |
"and raise up children for his brother. | 0:39 | |
"Now there were seven brothers. | 0:42 | |
"The first married and died childless, | 0:44 | |
"then the second and third married her. | 0:47 | |
"And so in the same way, all seven died childless. | 0:49 | |
"Finally, the woman also died. | 0:53 | |
"In the resurrection, therefore, | 0:55 | |
"whose wife will the woman be? | 0:58 | |
"For the seven had married her." | 1:00 | |
Jesus said to them, | 1:03 | |
"Those who belong to this age marry | 1:05 | |
"and are given in marriage, | 1:08 | |
"but those who are considered worthy of a place in that age | 1:10 | |
"and in the resurrection from the dead, | 1:13 | |
"neither marry nor are given in marriage. | 1:15 | |
"Indeed they cannot die anymore | 1:19 | |
"because they are like angels and are children of God, | 1:21 | |
"being children of the resurrection. | 1:26 | |
"And the fact that the dead are raised, | 1:28 | |
"Moses himself showed in the story about the bush, | 1:30 | |
"where he speaks of the Lord as the God of Abraham, | 1:34 | |
"the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. | 1:37 | |
"Now he is God not of the dead, but of the living, | 1:40 | |
"for to him, all of them are alive." | 1:45 | |
This is the word of the Lord. | 1:48 | |
Congregation | Thanks be to God. | 1:50 |
(footsteps) | 1:59 | |
Man | Again from the Gospel of Luke, | 2:26 |
the 23rd chapter, | 2:30 | |
the 39th verse. | 2:33 | |
One of the criminals who were hanged there | 2:36 | |
kept deriding him and saying, | 2:39 | |
"Are you not the Messiah? | 2:43 | |
"Save yourself and us!" | 2:46 | |
But the other rebuked him, saying, | 2:50 | |
"Do you not fear God, | 2:54 | |
"since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? | 2:57 | |
"And we, indeed, have been condemned justly, | 3:03 | |
"for we are getting what we deserve for our deeds, | 3:09 | |
"but this man has done nothing wrong." | 3:16 | |
Then he said, | 3:22 | |
"Jesus. | 3:26 | |
"Remember me | 3:28 | |
"when you come into your kingdom." | 3:31 | |
The Word of God, for we the People of God. | 3:37 | |
Congregation | Thanks be to God. | 3:41 |
- | This is a strange request | 3:46 |
made at a strange time. | 3:51 | |
The request is made by a famous | 3:55 | |
or should we say infamous man | 3:57 | |
who hung on the cross next to Jesus. | 4:00 | |
That man, whose name we do not know, | 4:06 | |
was a criminal convicted of his crimes | 4:10 | |
and was now being tortured to death. | 4:15 | |
But in this gospel story, | 4:19 | |
this man does important work. | 4:22 | |
He ends the senseless speculation about Jesus | 4:27 | |
and the endless ridicule of Jesus as he hung on the cross. | 4:33 | |
His words are quite eloquent. | 4:40 | |
On the cross, dying, this man summarizes his own life, | 4:44 | |
and he concludes that he has reached | 4:51 | |
the bitter end he deserves. | 4:53 | |
"But this Jesus", he announces, | 4:57 | |
"has not reached the end he deserves." | 5:01 | |
And he ends this eloquent and powerful | 5:06 | |
disruption of ridicule with a simple request. | 5:09 | |
"Lord, remember me, | 5:16 | |
"when you come into your kingdom. | 5:21 | |
"Lord, remember." | 5:24 | |
There are few requests in scripture more powerful, | 5:29 | |
more coded, if you will, than the request to remember. | 5:34 | |
It is a request | 5:41 | |
found in the mouths of people both great and small. | 5:42 | |
It is found in the mouths of prophets, priests, and kings. | 5:48 | |
And surprisingly, stunningly, | 5:54 | |
the request to remember | 5:57 | |
is again and again spoken by God. | 6:00 | |
God remembers. | 6:08 | |
God remembers. | 6:11 | |
This we know without a doubt. | 6:16 | |
In the unfolding drama of scripture, | 6:18 | |
the issue is never really about God's ability to remember. | 6:21 | |
The issue is about | 6:29 | |
our ability to remember, | 6:33 | |
the ability of God's people, Israel, to remember, | 6:36 | |
specifically how they remember | 6:41 | |
and what they remember, | 6:46 | |
and the things they do that help them remember. | 6:50 | |
The work of remembering is important work, crucial work. | 6:59 | |
Indeed you could say that much of our life | 7:06 | |
is shaped, governed, and even ruled | 7:11 | |
by how we remember. | 7:17 | |
My dear wife, who is a stunning marriage | 7:21 | |
and family therapist, she has to be she's married to me, | 7:24 | |
she teaches couples the fine art of selective remembering. | 7:31 | |
Husbands and wives need to learn | 7:38 | |
the fine art of selective remembering. | 7:41 | |
Now let me give you a little tidbit of advice. | 7:46 | |
My wife charges money for this but I'll give it to you free. | 7:50 | |
If you want to slip a few dollars in my hand at the door | 7:54 | |
at the end of service, you can do that. | 7:57 | |
(audience laughter) | 7:59 | |
I'm not kidding | 8:00 | |
(stronger laughter) | 8:01 | |
Here it is. | 8:08 | |
Married couples must learn how to remember | 8:10 | |
the good things they have done for one another. | 8:15 | |
They must allow those good memories | 8:20 | |
to become advocates for patience and appreciation, | 8:23 | |
but not turn good memories | 8:29 | |
into demands that dictate behavior. | 8:34 | |
Isn't that right? | 8:38 | |
(audience laughter) | 8:39 | |
A wise couple, a wise couple, | 8:42 | |
also knows how to remember | 8:45 | |
the bad things they have done to one another. | 8:50 | |
They know how to remember their mistakes | 8:56 | |
and learn from them. | 9:02 | |
They also know what mistakes | 9:05 | |
to remember lightly or slightly, | 9:10 | |
and sometimes to not remember at all. | 9:16 | |
What destroys a good marriage | 9:26 | |
is remembering badly. | 9:32 | |
What destroys a life | 9:37 | |
is remembering badly. | 9:41 | |
My friends, | 9:45 | |
our lives are haunted | 9:49 | |
by the voices and actors of our past. | 9:52 | |
Our parents, our teachers, our friends, lovers, enemies. | 9:56 | |
We dance with them throughout the song of life, | 10:02 | |
and if we are not skilled in remembering, | 10:07 | |
those voices, those actors distort our present | 10:12 | |
and damage our future. | 10:18 | |
Remembering rightly is not an ability | 10:23 | |
Americans have in abundance. | 10:26 | |
As a nation, we remember our past | 10:30 | |
in either insanely heroic ways | 10:35 | |
or in depressingly grotesque ways. | 10:39 | |
We don't know how to remember with skill. | 10:42 | |
That's why a nation like ours needs its poets, | 10:51 | |
its artists, and especially its musicians. | 10:55 | |
One of the gifts we have in this country that may someday | 11:02 | |
help us learn how to remember is the blues. | 11:06 | |
That's right, the blues. | 11:13 | |
Nations need the blues | 11:18 | |
because the blues is about artfully weaving together | 11:21 | |
painful memories with memories of great ecstasy. | 11:26 | |
Blues singing tries to hold together | 11:31 | |
the multiple complex memories of our lives | 11:36 | |
without allowing them to destroy us. | 11:40 | |
But the truth is no nation, even nations with the blues, | 11:45 | |
no nation remembers well, | 11:52 | |
remembers rightly. | 11:56 | |
The technical term is ideological deployment, propaganda. | 11:59 | |
Nation states remember the past | 12:06 | |
only to justify the present. | 12:09 | |
Only to justify their actions now and into the future. | 12:13 | |
Nation states remember only to establish their distinction | 12:20 | |
or their domination of other nations. | 12:25 | |
No nation gets it right. | 12:30 | |
All turn memory against itself. | 12:35 | |
The world truly awaits a ruler | 12:40 | |
and a holy nation that remembers rightly. | 12:45 | |
But we know. | 12:53 | |
We know that God has been about the business | 12:56 | |
of trying to create just such a nation. | 13:01 | |
God's holy workings with Israel in the drama of scripture | 13:05 | |
was to teach them how to remember. | 13:11 | |
God is exquisite at remembering. | 13:16 | |
Not only does God remember the details, the events, | 13:22 | |
the places, the people, the words, | 13:28 | |
the promises made, promises broken, and promises kept. | 13:33 | |
But God also remembers who we are. | 13:40 | |
God remembers as the psalmist tells us | 13:45 | |
that we are grass. | 13:48 | |
We are grass. | 13:51 | |
Fragile. | 13:53 | |
God remembers that at our absolute best | 13:55 | |
we still make mistakes. | 13:59 | |
God remembers that we wither, that we become frail, | 14:02 | |
and that we die. | 14:08 | |
God's desire in remembering is not hidden to us. | 14:13 | |
God teaches us to remember | 14:20 | |
in order that we might see him at work | 14:24 | |
in our past, our present, and our future. | 14:27 | |
God tells us to remember that we might be changed | 14:31 | |
by the divine presence in our midst working with us. | 14:37 | |
Sisters and brothers, Jesus | 14:45 | |
was God's remembering. | 14:51 | |
Jesus was God remembering. | 14:55 | |
God in flesh remembering. | 14:59 | |
What brought Jesus to the cross | 15:03 | |
next to this criminal, this thief, | 15:05 | |
was God's remembering. | 15:08 | |
God remembered Israel, God remembers us. | 15:10 | |
God remembered that even at our best, | 15:16 | |
we make mistakes. | 15:22 | |
God remembered that we become frail and we will die. | 15:25 | |
But the miracle of the cross | 15:34 | |
and the gift of the resurrection | 15:37 | |
is that God in Jesus remembers us even after death. | 15:40 | |
Our past mistakes need not consume us. | 15:47 | |
Our fragility need not destroy us, | 15:53 | |
and death no longer means our memories will come to an end. | 15:57 | |
This is what our life together as the church teaches us. | 16:05 | |
The work of remembering is holy work, good work. | 16:10 | |
What do you remember? | 16:18 | |
What do you remember? | 16:21 | |
Do you remember that Jesus died and rose again? | 16:25 | |
Do you remember that your life, | 16:30 | |
your very life is hid in Christ? | 16:33 | |
Do you remember that the past belongs to Jesus? | 16:37 | |
The present is also his, | 16:43 | |
and your future is found in Him. | 16:45 | |
We must let our lives become signs | 16:51 | |
of remembering rightly. | 16:57 | |
We must become people who follow Jesus | 16:59 | |
all the way to the cross, | 17:03 | |
remembering God's promise to raise us from the dead. | 17:07 | |
Only then can the church be that holy nation | 17:13 | |
that remembers rightly. | 17:18 | |
My sisters and brothers, | 17:24 | |
the world cannot remember rightly. | 17:26 | |
We cannot forget this. | 17:32 | |
It can only teach us to remember selfish successes | 17:35 | |
or fatal failures. | 17:42 | |
That man that hung on the cross next to Jesus got it right. | 17:45 | |
He realized that the deeds of a lifetime | 17:52 | |
are too much for us to interpret, | 17:56 | |
too complex for us to organize. | 18:00 | |
The deeds of our lives bring us | 18:05 | |
to places of despair, of doubt, | 18:11 | |
and even death. | 18:15 | |
Our memories fail. | 18:17 | |
We forget the good | 18:21 | |
and we remember only the bad. | 18:24 | |
We cannot remember rightly. | 18:27 | |
What is crucial is that God remembers. | 18:31 | |
This God remembers | 18:37 | |
that our mistakes are never final, | 18:40 | |
our faith is fragile, | 18:45 | |
and his desire to have us with him is eternal. | 18:49 | |
This man on the cross | 18:57 | |
made the right request | 19:01 | |
and so should we. | 19:05 | |
Lord, remember me | 19:08 | |
when you come into your kingdom. | 19:12 | |
Amen. | 19:17 |