Robert T. Young - "You Have Forsaken Your First Love" (May 4, 1980)
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- | Sunday worship service, May 4th, 1980 Duke Chapel. | 0:03 |
(lighthearted music) | 0:15 | |
(solemn music) | 2:39 | |
(regal music) | 5:16 | |
(triumphant music) | 8:02 | |
(uplifting music) | 9:49 | |
(calm music) | 10:53 | |
(soaring music) | 11:42 | |
(uplifting music) | 12:40 | |
(quiet music) | 13:51 | |
(suspenseful music) | 16:17 | |
- | Good morning, | 18:22 |
greetings to each one of you, | 18:24 | |
in the name of the Lord of love and life. | 18:26 | |
Oh magnify the Lord with me, | 18:30 | |
and let us exalt his name together. | 18:32 | |
Sing praises to God, | 18:36 | |
Sing praises unto the Lord. | 18:38 | |
Our praises of God must extend to the ends of the Earth. | 18:41 | |
For God is our god, forever and ever. | 18:44 | |
God will be our guide forever. | 18:48 | |
Amen. | 18:52 | |
(uplifting music) | 18:55 | |
(chorus singing) | 19:28 | |
We would like to look at ourselves | 23:17 | |
and be wholly pleased with what we see. | 23:19 | |
But, the Christian gospel calls us to be honest. | 23:23 | |
It forces us to be realistic. | 23:26 | |
Let us then make a bold recognition that we are not pleased | 23:29 | |
with what we see. | 23:34 | |
Let us confess our sins. | 23:36 | |
Mighty God, by your power is Christ raised from death | 23:48 | |
to rule this world with love. | 23:53 | |
We confess that we have not believed in Him, | 23:56 | |
but fall into doubt and fear. | 24:00 | |
Gladness has no home in our hearts, | 24:03 | |
and gratitude is slight. | 24:06 | |
Forgive our dread of dying, our hopelessness. | 24:09 | |
And set us free for joy and the victory of Jesus Christ, | 24:14 | |
who was dead, but lives. | 24:18 | |
And who will put down every power to hurt or destroy, | 24:21 | |
when your promised kingdom comes. | 24:26 | |
Amen. | 24:29 | |
Let us confess in silence, our personal sins. | 24:31 | |
Jesus said, neither do I condemn you | 24:58 | |
go and do not sin again. | 25:03 | |
Our life is given back to us with hope, | 25:06 | |
every day is an opportunity to decide again | 25:10 | |
that this day shall not be like the others. | 25:13 | |
That a new person is being created at this moment, | 25:15 | |
free from the past, with the future open. | 25:19 | |
For we have been freed to live fully in the present, | 25:23 | |
because our sins are forgiven. | 25:26 | |
That is the good news of the gospel. | 25:29 | |
Let us give thanks for God is good, | 25:33 | |
and God's love is everlasting. | 25:37 | |
Thanks be to God, by whose love we have been made. | 25:40 | |
Thanks be to God, by whose grace we have been made whole. | 25:45 | |
Thanks be to God, by whose resurrection we are promised | 25:50 | |
life ever lasting, Amen. | 25:55 | |
Inserted in your bulletin today, | 26:01 | |
you will find an order for the Sacrament of Baptism, | 26:03 | |
which will be administered this morning | 26:06 | |
to Matthew Edwards Mossier, | 26:08 | |
son of Anne and Earl Mossier | 26:10 | |
and to Lynn Brooks Lassinger, | 26:12 | |
son of Linda and Lynn Lassinger. | 26:16 | |
Following the service, we request | 26:20 | |
that you leave this insert in the back | 26:22 | |
of your hymnal. | 26:24 | |
Communion will be served today | 26:27 | |
in the memorial chapel to my right, | 26:29 | |
following this service. | 26:31 | |
All of you are welcome and invited to participate. | 26:33 | |
Our preacher for today is the Reverend Robert T. Young | 26:39 | |
minister to the university. | 26:42 | |
We look forward to his message. | 26:44 | |
(pages turning) | 26:47 | |
- | Let us pray. | 26:54 |
Prepare our hearts, oh Lord, to accept your word. | 26:58 | |
Silence in us any voice but your own | 27:03 | |
that hearing we may also obey your will, | 27:06 | |
through Jesus Christ, our Lord, Amen. | 27:10 | |
The new testament lesson, | 27:15 | |
is from Acts, chapter 13 verses 44 through 52. | 27:16 | |
The next Sabbath, almost the whole city gathered together | 27:24 | |
to hear the word of God. | 27:27 | |
But, when the Jews saw the multitudes they were filled | 27:29 | |
with jealousy and contradicted what was spoken by Paul | 27:32 | |
and reviled him, and Paul and Barnabas spoke out boldly | 27:36 | |
saying, it was necessary that the word of God | 27:42 | |
should be spoken first to you, since you thrust it | 27:46 | |
from you and judge yourselves unworthy of eternal life. | 27:50 | |
Behold, we turn to the Gentiles. | 27:54 | |
For so the Lord has commanded us, saying, | 27:58 | |
I have sent you to be a light for the Gentiles. | 28:02 | |
That you may bring salvation to the uttermost parts | 28:05 | |
of the earth. | 28:08 | |
And when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad | 28:10 | |
and glorified the word of God. | 28:13 | |
And as many as were ordained to eternal life believed | 28:15 | |
and the word of the Lord spread throughout all the region. | 28:19 | |
But, the Jews incited the devout women of high standing | 28:23 | |
and the leading men of the city | 28:27 | |
and stirred up persecution against Paul and Barnabas | 28:29 | |
and drove them out of their district. | 28:33 | |
But, they shook off the dust from their feet against them | 28:36 | |
and went to Iconium and the disciples | 28:40 | |
were filled with joy and with the Holy Spirit. | 28:43 | |
The epistle lesson is from Revelation chapter two, | 28:48 | |
verses one through seven. | 28:52 | |
To the angel of the church in Ephesus write: | 28:55 | |
the words of him who holds the seven stars | 28:59 | |
in his right hand, who walks | 29:02 | |
among the seven golden lamp stands. | 29:05 | |
I know your works, your toil and your patient endurance. | 29:08 | |
And how you cannot bear evil men, | 29:13 | |
but have tested those who call themselves apostles, | 29:16 | |
but are not, and found them to be false. | 29:19 | |
I know you are enduring patiently | 29:23 | |
and bearing up for my name's sake, | 29:25 | |
and you have not grown weary. | 29:28 | |
But, I have this against you: | 29:31 | |
that you have abandoned the love you had at first. | 29:33 | |
Remember then, from what you have fallen! | 29:36 | |
Repent and do the works you did at first. | 29:40 | |
If not, I will come to you and remove your lamp stand | 29:43 | |
from its place, unless you repent. | 29:48 | |
Yet this you have, you hate the works of the Nicolaitans | 29:51 | |
which I also hate. | 29:56 | |
He who has an ear, let him hear what the spirit says | 29:58 | |
to the churches. | 30:02 | |
To him who conquers, I will grant to eat of the tree of life | 30:04 | |
which is in the paradise of God. | 30:10 | |
Will the congregation please stand | 30:14 | |
for the reading of the gospel lesson? | 30:17 | |
The gospel lesson is from John, | 30:25 | |
chapter 13, verses 31 through 35. | 30:28 | |
When he had gone out, Jesus said, | 30:33 | |
now is the son of man glorified. | 30:36 | |
And in him, God is glorified. | 30:40 | |
If God is glorified in him, | 30:43 | |
God will also glorify him in himself | 30:45 | |
and glorify him at once. | 30:51 | |
Little children, yet a little while I am with you. | 30:54 | |
You will seek me, and as I said to the Jews, | 30:58 | |
so now I say to you. | 31:02 | |
Where I am going, you cannot come. | 31:04 | |
A new commandment I give to you, | 31:07 | |
that you love one another, even as I have loved you | 31:10 | |
that you also love one another. | 31:14 | |
By this, all men will know that you are my disciples. | 31:17 | |
If you have love for one another. | 31:21 | |
(solemn music) | 31:27 | |
(chorus singing) | 31:35 | |
- | The book of Revelation | 32:39 |
is an absolutely fascinating book. | 32:41 | |
One about which much has been made of late. | 32:46 | |
For the past year and a half, | 32:51 | |
I have studied the book a good bit, | 32:53 | |
and have shared some of what it has come to mean | 32:56 | |
to me with persons in different settings. | 32:58 | |
I have found it not only a fascinating book, | 33:02 | |
but an intriguing book and also a book | 33:04 | |
filled with much, much meaning. | 33:07 | |
Many people talk about how unclear it is | 33:09 | |
and how mysterious it is, and how hard it is to understand. | 33:12 | |
That may be true in some places; | 33:16 | |
it is certainly not true in all places. | 33:18 | |
For example, it is not true | 33:22 | |
in the seven letters written specifically | 33:24 | |
to the seven churches, | 33:26 | |
the first of which we heard read | 33:27 | |
as the epistle lesson this morning. | 33:29 | |
In these seven letters, to the seven churches, | 33:32 | |
John, as he gives a word which comes from our Lord, | 33:36 | |
is absolutely clear. | 33:40 | |
He is understandable, he is comprehensible, | 33:42 | |
there is nothing mysterious about what he says. | 33:45 | |
The words which he shares are as contemporary | 33:49 | |
as this morning's newspaper. | 33:52 | |
They're as personal as any words can be | 33:55 | |
from one human being to another. | 33:58 | |
They are quite real. | 34:00 | |
The words come also from someone who obviously knows | 34:02 | |
the persons to whom the words are being addressed. | 34:06 | |
But more importantly, they come | 34:09 | |
from someone who cares and cares very much | 34:11 | |
about the persons to whom they are addressed. | 34:14 | |
The church at Laodicea, described | 34:17 | |
as being neither hot nor cold, | 34:20 | |
but simply lukewarm, a contemporary word. | 34:22 | |
The church at Smyrna, about which it is said | 34:27 | |
"I know that you are poor, but really you are rich." | 34:30 | |
The church at Sardis, about which it is said, | 34:37 | |
"you have the reputation of being alive, | 34:40 | |
"even though you are dead." | 34:43 | |
And I think of many of our churches, | 34:45 | |
and many of our church institutions | 34:47 | |
that still have the reputation | 34:48 | |
of being Christian, or church-related-- | 34:50 | |
they have the reputation of being alive, | 34:53 | |
but are quite dead. | 34:55 | |
And then the letter to Ephesus, the first | 34:58 | |
of these seven letters, | 35:01 | |
which includes in it, some words that go like this, | 35:03 | |
according to different translations: | 35:06 | |
"'you do not love me now, as you did at first,' | 35:08 | |
says our Lord. | 35:11 | |
"You have abandoned the love you had at first, | 35:13 | |
"you have lost your early love, | 35:15 | |
"you have given up loving one another as you did at first, | 35:18 | |
"or you have forsaken your first love." | 35:21 | |
The word for us today: | 35:25 | |
you have forsaken your first love. | 35:28 | |
There's a pattern to these seven letters. | 35:33 | |
Simple, clear, logical. | 35:36 | |
An understandable pattern to each one. | 35:39 | |
All of them are addressed to the angel at the church | 35:42 | |
in whatever the town is. | 35:45 | |
The angel being simply their address to the angelus, | 35:48 | |
the angel, the messenger in that particular church. | 35:51 | |
All also began with a statement about the one | 35:55 | |
whose message is being communicated, | 35:57 | |
that is, some statement about the Christ. | 35:59 | |
And if you read the seven letters, | 36:02 | |
and combine these opening words in each letter, | 36:04 | |
you get a magnificent composite picture | 36:06 | |
of who Christ is. | 36:09 | |
One who holds the seven starts in his hands, | 36:10 | |
one who walks among the seven lampstands, | 36:13 | |
one who is the first and the last, | 36:16 | |
one who is holy and true, | 36:18 | |
one who is the son of God. | 36:20 | |
A third part in this pattern | 36:23 | |
is that there then follows a word of commendation. | 36:25 | |
A word of praise, a word of affirmation, | 36:29 | |
a word of congratulations, perhaps John learned something | 36:31 | |
from Paul, because you know in Paul's letters, | 36:36 | |
he had a way of saying, I know how faithful you have been, | 36:38 | |
I know how loving you have been, | 36:41 | |
and then after he had said some words of commendation, | 36:43 | |
then he lowered the boom on them. | 36:46 | |
And so does John here. | 36:49 | |
There is a word of commendation, | 36:51 | |
and then after that comes the word of chastisement. | 36:53 | |
And the word differs, according to what the situation is | 36:56 | |
in each different location. | 36:59 | |
And then there is the word of reproach, | 37:01 | |
the word of instruction, the word of warning. | 37:03 | |
After commendation and after chastisement, | 37:05 | |
John then says, in so many words, | 37:08 | |
"Get with it! Be faithful! | 37:10 | |
"Recover what you have lost! | 37:11 | |
"Stay with the word of God." | 37:13 | |
Then, the sixth part of this pattern is | 37:17 | |
that the messages are to be accepted. | 37:20 | |
They have authority. | 37:22 | |
They were or they are to be followed, | 37:24 | |
because they come not from John, but from the Lord himself. | 37:27 | |
And then they all end with the same words: | 37:31 | |
"If you have ears, then listen to what | 37:33 | |
the Spirit says to the churches." | 37:38 | |
If you have ears, then listen to what | 37:41 | |
the Spirit says this morning, my friends, to the churches. | 37:45 | |
Seven letters, to seven churches, | 37:48 | |
one letter written to all. | 37:50 | |
This was to be an open letter | 37:52 | |
to all of the churches in Asia, | 37:54 | |
not private, but it was to be read in public. | 37:56 | |
It was to be read aloud to all, | 37:59 | |
so that all could hear, and hopefully all could understand. | 38:01 | |
It's interesting also that each church | 38:04 | |
would read all seven letters; | 38:06 | |
all churches would read each of the letters. | 38:08 | |
It was important, I think. | 38:11 | |
Because those who were being chastised could see | 38:13 | |
what it was in those churches that were being commended. | 38:15 | |
And those that were being commended could see | 38:19 | |
what the word was to those that were being chastised. | 38:21 | |
So, if you were in that church | 38:25 | |
where you were being commended, | 38:27 | |
you also had a word of warning | 38:29 | |
that if you did not remain faithful, | 38:30 | |
the word of chastisement could follow. | 38:33 | |
On the other hand, | 38:35 | |
if you were in that church | 38:36 | |
that was being chastised, | 38:37 | |
you heard also the word of commendation. | 38:38 | |
So that if you then became faithful, | 38:41 | |
you know that the word of approbation would be forthcoming. | 38:42 | |
Thus, each letter, all letters would be | 38:47 | |
and are both a word of warning and a word of hope. | 38:49 | |
A word of warning to the unfaithful, | 38:54 | |
a word of hope to the faithful. | 38:55 | |
This is the letter John writes, | 38:58 | |
this is the letter from one who holds all the seven stars | 39:00 | |
in his right hand. | 39:04 | |
This is the one who walks among the seven gold lampstands. | 39:06 | |
The one who holds and the one who walks among. | 39:11 | |
The late doctor D. T. Niles, | 39:15 | |
great and beloved New Testament scholar | 39:18 | |
and preacher of India, | 39:21 | |
paraphrases some of these opening words | 39:23 | |
in a beautiful way, I think, as he writes: | 39:25 | |
"I saw seven golden lamp stands, | 39:31 | |
"representing your seven churches, | 39:33 | |
"and through you, representing the whole church of God. | 39:38 | |
"And in the midst of these lampstands stood | 39:43 | |
"the Lord of the church, tending the lamps. | 39:45 | |
"The reality of the church | 39:50 | |
"is the reality of Christ's presence within it. | 39:51 | |
"But not only did it seem to me | 39:55 | |
"that Christ was in the midst of his church, | 39:57 | |
"it also seemed that the church was in his hand. | 39:59 | |
"He held seven stars in his right hand. | 40:02 | |
"Each star the symbol of one of you, as you actually were. | 40:06 | |
"And the Lord who tended the lamps, | 40:11 | |
"was also the one who judged the stars. | 40:14 | |
"He was the eternal one. | 40:17 | |
"Ephesus! It was you," he writes, | 40:19 | |
"that I remembered when I saw the bridegroom thus. | 40:22 | |
"For you too are in a situation in which you have | 40:25 | |
"to discern between the actual and the eternal." | 40:28 | |
And so do we find ourselves today | 40:34 | |
in that situation, where you and I | 40:36 | |
have to discern between the actual and the eternal. | 40:38 | |
Seven, a symbolic number in the book of Revelation. | 40:42 | |
Seven, not meaning necessarily seven, | 40:46 | |
but seven meaning all, or total, or complete. | 40:49 | |
So, seven stars and seven lampstands: | 40:52 | |
the stars refer to the churches, | 40:54 | |
the lampstands refer to the churches, | 40:56 | |
therefore these letters, this letter, these letters | 40:58 | |
are to all of the churches. | 41:01 | |
The one who holds the seven stars in his right hand. | 41:04 | |
William Barclay tells us that the Greek word, kratein, | 41:08 | |
which means "to hold," can be used | 41:12 | |
in at least two different ways. | 41:14 | |
One of those ways is that if one holds something | 41:17 | |
that one just simply holds by a thumb | 41:20 | |
and some fingers, simply holding a portion | 41:23 | |
of that object. | 41:26 | |
You hold it by the corner, you do not have a good grasp | 41:27 | |
on it, except partially. | 41:30 | |
That's one use of the word kratein. | 41:32 | |
The other, he says, is when one takes | 41:35 | |
an object, and holds an object not simply by the corner, | 41:37 | |
but when one holds it completely and totally | 41:42 | |
in the palm of one's hand. | 41:45 | |
And that's the word that is used | 41:46 | |
in this particular instance. | 41:48 | |
Jesus then holds, not the church by a corner, | 41:52 | |
but Jesus literally holds all of the churches | 41:57 | |
in the palm of his hand. | 42:00 | |
Jesus is also the one who walks among | 42:05 | |
the seven lampstands, | 42:07 | |
the seven lampstands meaning all of the churches. | 42:09 | |
It is that risen presence of Christ, | 42:12 | |
which not only hold all of us, | 42:14 | |
who are in all of the churches, | 42:16 | |
in the palm of his hand, | 42:18 | |
but Jesus is that risen presence of Christ | 42:19 | |
which also walks among all of the churches. | 42:22 | |
Beautiful, tender, caring, loving, nurturing imagery, | 42:26 | |
I think, we're held within the love and the presence | 42:31 | |
and the care of Christ, as Christ moves among the light | 42:35 | |
and work of us as a part of the church. | 42:39 | |
And so when some folks talk with me or with others, | 42:42 | |
and seem to be preoccupied with the fearful | 42:45 | |
and the wrathful, I recall these tender, caring | 42:48 | |
and beautiful images of our Lord. | 42:53 | |
Commendation, I know what you have done, | 42:58 | |
I know how hard you have worked | 43:02 | |
and how patient you have been. | 43:04 | |
I know that you cannot tolerate evil men, | 43:05 | |
you are patient, you have suffered trouble for my sake, | 43:08 | |
and you have not given up. | 43:11 | |
Strong, positive, affirming words. | 43:13 | |
Enough to where they really should feel quite good. | 43:17 | |
If Christ says that much about us, | 43:20 | |
what more can he expect? | 43:23 | |
That's pretty good. | 43:24 | |
As a matter of fact, that's real good. | 43:26 | |
That's very good! | 43:28 | |
But, there is more. | 43:31 | |
Much more. | 43:34 | |
Not many words, mind you, | 43:35 | |
but an essential and an important message. | 43:38 | |
Sometimes it doesn't take but a few words | 43:42 | |
to tell a significant story | 43:44 | |
or to get across an unforgettable message. | 43:46 | |
The words are, you have forsaken your first love, | 43:49 | |
here is what I have against you. | 43:53 | |
I guess, in some moments, and in some experiences of life | 43:57 | |
there are no sadder, or more painful, | 44:03 | |
or more poignant words than the words, | 44:06 | |
you do not love me now, as you did at first. | 44:10 | |
Or you have forsaken your first love. | 44:15 | |
Now, I know as well as you do, | 44:21 | |
that there are some first loves | 44:23 | |
that are to be forsaken, that must be abandoned | 44:24 | |
that are to be left behind and outgrown. | 44:26 | |
For example, one's first love about a vocation | 44:30 | |
or a job often is outgrown | 44:33 | |
and that first love withers and fades | 44:37 | |
or it changes, I'm sure Jimmy Carter's love | 44:39 | |
for the presidency is quite different now | 44:41 | |
from what it was when he sought it four years ago. | 44:43 | |
One's first love of some friends | 44:48 | |
or of a friend may change with time. | 44:50 | |
One's first love about certain foods | 44:54 | |
or certain ways of dressing. | 44:56 | |
One's first love about the arts | 44:59 | |
or about entertainment may change over the years. | 45:02 | |
One's first love in love may change. | 45:05 | |
Or even one's first love in religion. | 45:10 | |
Maturing, growing, learning, comprehending, understanding, | 45:14 | |
gaining insights, all require or force us, or lead us | 45:18 | |
to give up some first loves | 45:23 | |
and then to move on to others. | 45:25 | |
But, once a responsible, free, | 45:27 | |
open, mature, | 45:32 | |
honest, genuine, covenant or commitment of love is | 45:34 | |
entered into, Jesus says hold fast. | 45:37 | |
Hold on. | 45:44 | |
Remain true. | 45:46 | |
Remain faithful. | 45:49 | |
Be secure. | 45:51 | |
Keep your first love, first. | 45:53 | |
And as I have read and reflected on these words, | 45:58 | |
it seems to me that Jesus surely must have known | 46:00 | |
about our time and generation and our ways. | 46:03 | |
Because ours, it seems to me, is the generation | 46:08 | |
of tentative commitment. | 46:11 | |
Of qualified or conditional love. | 46:13 | |
Christ wants total, unqualified, | 46:20 | |
unchanging, unending | 46:25 | |
commitment of love to him, | 46:28 | |
and not many of us are willing to make that commitment. | 46:32 | |
A total, unqualified, unconditional commitment of love. | 46:38 | |
We're not willing to make that kind | 46:42 | |
of commitment to anybody. | 46:44 | |
Even to Christ, or to God. | 46:47 | |
So, as I see it, Jesus could | 46:52 | |
have been warning the church at Ephesus, | 46:53 | |
the church at large, and indeed us as the church today. | 46:55 | |
Of three possible ways of forsaking our first love | 46:59 | |
when he gave John these words. | 47:03 | |
Some believe that Jesus may have been saying | 47:06 | |
you do not love one another as you did at first. | 47:08 | |
If true, if they really did not love one another | 47:10 | |
as they did at first, then they deserved a warning | 47:14 | |
because it was said about the early church, | 47:16 | |
behold these Christians, how they love one another | 47:19 | |
or in the gospel lesson this morning, | 47:22 | |
they will know you are my disciples if you love one another. | 47:24 | |
Love of one another, as well as of other people | 47:28 | |
has always been one hallmark | 47:31 | |
of a faithful, loyal, obedient Christian | 47:33 | |
and of any Christian community. | 47:36 | |
To fall from this would be worthy of warning. | 47:39 | |
That may be what Jesus was referring to. | 47:43 | |
But I choose to believe that there may be two other | 47:47 | |
perhaps even more important ways in which Jesus | 47:51 | |
was thinking about the fact | 47:54 | |
that the church at Ephesus and even some | 47:56 | |
of us today may have forsaken our first love. | 47:59 | |
I think he may have meant, and he may mean | 48:03 | |
that someone else, something else has become | 48:05 | |
the chief object of our devotion. | 48:09 | |
We have allowed an other to come between. | 48:14 | |
An other to become the most important, | 48:19 | |
an other to become supreme, | 48:22 | |
an other to become the one clearest and dearest | 48:25 | |
an other to be the object | 48:29 | |
of our devotion, our faith, our loyalty, our love. | 48:31 | |
There is no mention here, you will note, | 48:37 | |
of who or what or whom it is | 48:40 | |
that may have intervened. | 48:44 | |
It really doesn't matter. | 48:46 | |
It doesn't matter what or who or whom | 48:48 | |
has replaced the Christ, | 48:51 | |
somehow or other, Christ says, for some reason or other | 48:52 | |
in some manner or other, | 48:56 | |
I am no longer the center of your faith, | 48:58 | |
the primary person, the primary relationship in your life. | 49:01 | |
That does happen to us, doesn't it? | 49:07 | |
That has happened to some of us, anyhow, hasn't it? | 49:11 | |
We have forsaken our first love, that is Christ, | 49:15 | |
by allowing someone or something to become more important. | 49:19 | |
Or at least some of us have. | 49:24 | |
So the first way then, is that we may | 49:27 | |
have simply allowed something or someone else | 49:29 | |
to become the chief object, the center, of devotion | 49:32 | |
of our lives. | 49:35 | |
A second way, though, that I think he may have been meaning | 49:38 | |
this particular passage is that | 49:41 | |
that love, which we had at first, | 49:43 | |
is not as warm or as full or as vital | 49:46 | |
it is not as rich, it is not as meaningful as it once was. | 49:51 | |
That love which we once had, has faded and withered. | 49:54 | |
And that too happens to most of us, doesn't it? | 50:01 | |
I remember the fire and the excitement of my faith, | 50:06 | |
when first I found it, or discovered it, | 50:13 | |
or whenever I was first found or discovered, | 50:14 | |
by the Christ. | 50:17 | |
There was something in my teenage years, | 50:19 | |
about the excitement and the enthusiasm, | 50:21 | |
the emotion, the feeling that I had in my relationship | 50:24 | |
to Christ, which has faded. | 50:27 | |
Well, I've gotten older. | 50:31 | |
Perhaps none of my emotions are quite what they were then. | 50:33 | |
I've learned some theological and philosophical terms. | 50:39 | |
Perhaps I've become a little more sophisticated. | 50:43 | |
But, whatever it is, there is, in some ways, | 50:48 | |
the feeling that that fire, that feeling | 50:51 | |
the depth of devotion and commitment, | 50:54 | |
the warmth of that love, | 50:57 | |
has indeed faded and withered somewhat. | 50:59 | |
But, I have an idea that I'm not the only one | 51:06 | |
that has happened to. | 51:08 | |
Has there been some way, in your life, | 51:12 | |
in which some other object, some other person | 51:14 | |
or some other thing has replaced your primary devotion | 51:17 | |
to Christ? | 51:20 | |
Has there been some way in which your love for Christ | 51:22 | |
has faded and is not as strong or as rich as it once was? | 51:25 | |
But what Jesus says about the dangers | 51:32 | |
and the possibilities of our relationship with him | 51:34 | |
though, I think, | 51:36 | |
is also a possibility for any love, faith, kind | 51:38 | |
of relationship, friends, colleagues, partners, | 51:41 | |
husband-wife, wife-husband, | 51:44 | |
boyfriend-girlfriend, girlfriend-boyfriend. | 51:46 | |
There is always the risk, the possibility, the danger | 51:49 | |
that our first love will fade, will lose its real meaning | 51:52 | |
will wither and eventually may die altogether. | 51:56 | |
There is also the risk, always, I think, | 52:00 | |
the possibility, the danger, that someone else, | 52:03 | |
or something else, that some other power, some other thing, | 52:06 | |
may come along and take the place of our first love | 52:09 | |
and that love will be either partially | 52:12 | |
or fully removed altogether. | 52:15 | |
Christ said, and says, you have forsaken your first love. | 52:18 | |
A word of warning and a word of judgment, | 52:23 | |
I believe, my friends. | 52:25 | |
But as I taught a study | 52:31 | |
of this book of Revelation not too long ago. | 52:32 | |
Someone came up to me and said, | 52:37 | |
you're right. | 52:39 | |
There is that word of warning, and that word of judgment | 52:42 | |
that Jesus gives us in this passage. | 52:45 | |
That we have forsaken our first love of him. | 52:51 | |
In whatever way or ways he may have intended it. | 52:54 | |
But this person said to me, | 52:58 | |
that's not the last word. | 53:00 | |
So I want to say to you this morning | 53:07 | |
that it indeed is not the last word. | 53:08 | |
The last word in God's word, the last word from God | 53:10 | |
I believe, is never a word of judgment, | 53:14 | |
but the last word is always a word of grace, | 53:18 | |
and that word of grace says to us first, remember | 53:23 | |
how much you loved in days gone by, | 53:27 | |
remember what your first object of devotion was. | 53:29 | |
Remember how that love thrilled you, | 53:32 | |
and what it meant to you. | 53:35 | |
And then repent. | 53:37 | |
In whatever way or ways you need to. | 53:40 | |
For whatever it is that has come between you | 53:46 | |
and that first love. | 53:48 | |
And then the third is to do what you did at first. | 53:50 | |
Three steps, remember how it was at first, | 53:57 | |
repent of whatever it is that has happened, | 53:59 | |
and do in faith and love and obedience | 54:02 | |
what you did at first. | 54:05 | |
The last word is always a word of grace. | 54:06 | |
If you have ears, then listen | 54:09 | |
to those who have won the victory, | 54:11 | |
Jesus ends this particular letter. | 54:14 | |
To those that have won the victory, | 54:17 | |
I will give the right to eat | 54:19 | |
of the fruit, of the tree of life | 54:21 | |
that grows in the garden of God. | 54:23 | |
Grace, mercy, forgiveness, and love. | 54:26 | |
Absolutely beautiful passage, my friends. | 54:32 | |
Reminds me of a parable. | 54:36 | |
A parable that I have just recently | 54:39 | |
come to appreciate and am appreciating more and more. | 54:43 | |
Perhaps because I need, more than ever, the message | 54:48 | |
that it offers us. | 54:51 | |
That's the parable of the lost sheep. | 54:53 | |
You remember the story. | 54:58 | |
Jesus tells a parable, how there were 99 sheep | 55:00 | |
who were safely in the fold, | 55:03 | |
safely where they were supposed to be. | 55:05 | |
99 out of 100, and most of us, if we had 100 of anything, | 55:07 | |
and we had 99 of them safe and secure and all taken care of | 55:12 | |
we'd be quite satisfied, wouldn't we? | 55:15 | |
But, the sheep herder, | 55:20 | |
the one to whom not only the 99 belonged, | 55:22 | |
but also the one to whom the one belonged, wasn't satisfied. | 55:25 | |
And so the sheep herder left the 99 | 55:31 | |
and went out searching for the one. | 55:36 | |
We don't know how far he went, | 55:41 | |
or what kind of trouble he had to go through. | 55:44 | |
But, we know that the sheep herder searched, | 55:48 | |
and searched, and searched, and searched | 55:50 | |
for however long, and in whatever way was necessary, | 55:53 | |
until he found the one that was lost. | 55:56 | |
But you know that's not the beauty of the passage. | 55:59 | |
The beauty of the passage for me comes, | 56:03 | |
you read it very, very carefully if you will, | 56:06 | |
and I invite you to today. | 56:08 | |
Read that passage, | 56:11 | |
and when the sheep herder found that one lost sheep, | 56:13 | |
to get that sheep back in the fold | 56:17 | |
where the other 99 were, | 56:19 | |
he could have done any one of many things | 56:21 | |
to have gotten him back there, you remember? | 56:23 | |
He could have tied a rope around its neck, | 56:25 | |
and he could have dragged him back. | 56:27 | |
He could have gotten behind it and kicked it | 56:29 | |
in the behind with his foot. | 56:31 | |
He could have taken a stick and beaten it over the behind | 56:32 | |
to get it to go back home. | 56:35 | |
But he didn't do any of those things, my friend. | 56:36 | |
The word of God tells us that when he came | 56:41 | |
and found the one that was lost, | 56:44 | |
the sheep herder reached down and picked up | 56:45 | |
that one sheep, tenderly, and placed him on his shoulders. | 56:48 | |
And carried him home. | 56:55 | |
Perhaps it's because | 57:03 | |
there are times I feel the need of the power | 57:06 | |
and presence of God, | 57:09 | |
simply to pick me up, and put me on the | 57:12 | |
shoulders of love, | 57:16 | |
and carry me back, | 57:19 | |
that this parable speaks to me. | 57:23 | |
And perhaps all you and I need to do | 57:27 | |
is to say to God, | 57:31 | |
that we are ready | 57:34 | |
to be picked up | 57:36 | |
and carried back, | 57:39 | |
to our first love. | 57:42 | |
Amen. | 57:48 | |
(uplifting music) | 57:55 | |
(chorus singing) | 58:43 | |
- | Let us affirm what we believe. | 1:00:38 |
- | We believe in God, who has created and is creating | 1:00:42 |
who has come in the truly human Jesus | 1:00:47 | |
to reconcile and make new. | 1:00:50 | |
Who works in us, and others by the spirit. | 1:00:53 | |
We trust God, who calls us to be the church | 1:00:58 | |
to celebrate life and its fullness, | 1:01:02 | |
to love and serve others, | 1:01:06 | |
to seek justice, and resist evil, | 1:01:09 | |
to proclaim Jesus, crucified and risen, | 1:01:12 | |
our judge and our hope, | 1:01:16 | |
in life, in death, in life beyond death. | 1:01:19 | |
God is with us, we are not alone. | 1:01:25 | |
Thanks be to God. | 1:01:29 | |
The Lord be with you. | 1:01:33 | |
Let us pray. | 1:01:36 | |
Gracious God, by your providence we live and work | 1:01:47 | |
and join in families. | 1:01:52 | |
And from your hand receive those things we need. | 1:01:54 | |
Gift on gift, all free. | 1:01:58 | |
We thank you for the goodness you supply. | 1:02:02 | |
For food and shelter, for words and gestures. | 1:02:05 | |
For all our human friendships. | 1:02:10 | |
Above all, we praise you for your son, | 1:02:14 | |
who came to show mercy, | 1:02:17 | |
and who names us his own brothers and sisters. | 1:02:19 | |
Glory to you for great kindness to us | 1:02:22 | |
and all your children. | 1:02:25 | |
Great God, our creator, | 1:02:29 | |
you hear our prayers before we speak, | 1:02:32 | |
and answer before we know our need. | 1:02:35 | |
We find ourselves not knowing how to pray, | 1:02:39 | |
or for what to pray, | 1:02:42 | |
and ask only that your spirit may pray in us, | 1:02:45 | |
drawing us to you and toward our neighbors on earth. | 1:02:49 | |
We pray for the whole creation. | 1:02:55 | |
May all things work together for good, | 1:02:58 | |
until by your design, we reverence the earth | 1:03:01 | |
and order it wisely. | 1:03:04 | |
May the whole creation praise you, Lord and God. | 1:03:07 | |
We pray for the church of Jesus Christ, | 1:03:12 | |
that begun, maintained, and promoted by your spirit, | 1:03:15 | |
it may be true, engaging, glad, active, doing your will. | 1:03:20 | |
May the church always be faithful, Lord and God. | 1:03:27 | |
We pray for the people who do not believe, | 1:03:32 | |
and for the unbelief in our own hearts. | 1:03:35 | |
Open the eyes of doubt to see beyond our broken fellowship | 1:03:38 | |
the wonders of your love displayed in Jesus of Nazareth. | 1:03:42 | |
May our love remain strong. | 1:03:47 | |
Conquer our doubt with faith, Lord and God. | 1:03:50 | |
We pray for peace in the world, | 1:03:57 | |
disarm weapons, silence guns, and put out ancient hate | 1:03:59 | |
that smolders still, or flames in sudden conflict. | 1:04:03 | |
Create good will among people of every race and nation. | 1:04:09 | |
We pray especially today for the nations | 1:04:14 | |
of Afghanistan, Iran, San Salvadore, the USSR | 1:04:16 | |
and the United States. | 1:04:21 | |
Bring us to a sense of rightness and justice. | 1:04:24 | |
Bring peace to earth, Lord and God. | 1:04:28 | |
We pray for sick people who struggle with demons | 1:04:33 | |
of the mind or who suffer pain, | 1:04:36 | |
who silently cry out for healing. | 1:04:38 | |
Heal the sick and troubled, Lord and God. | 1:04:41 | |
We pray for those who mourn, | 1:04:46 | |
may they know that their mourning is a part | 1:04:48 | |
of their loving those now dead. | 1:04:51 | |
Bring them comfort, Lord and God. | 1:04:53 | |
And we pray today for families, | 1:04:58 | |
for parents, for children, for sisters, for brothers, | 1:05:01 | |
for husbands, for wives, and for those friends | 1:05:05 | |
who become an extended family to us. | 1:05:09 | |
As this school year draws to a close, | 1:05:14 | |
we pray for those friends who will be separated | 1:05:17 | |
from one another. | 1:05:19 | |
May those bonds of friendship live beyond the bounds | 1:05:21 | |
of time and space. | 1:05:24 | |
May we all enjoy one another, | 1:05:27 | |
honor freedoms and forgive as happily as we are all forgiven | 1:05:30 | |
in your huge mercy. | 1:05:34 | |
Keep us all in your love, Lord and God. | 1:05:36 | |
As we believe, so may we live, so may we love. | 1:05:41 | |
Where we walk, mighty God, may the hungry be fed, | 1:05:48 | |
the poor clothed, the sorrowful comforted, | 1:05:51 | |
and the wonderful deeds of God proclaimed. | 1:05:54 | |
For we know these things are possible through Jesus Christ, | 1:05:58 | |
who taught us to pray together. | 1:06:02 | |
Our father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name, | 1:06:05 | |
thy kingdom come, thy will be done, | 1:06:10 | |
on earth as it is in Heaven. | 1:06:13 | |
Give us this day our daily bread, | 1:06:16 | |
and forgive us our trespasses, | 1:06:19 | |
as we forgive those who trespass against us, | 1:06:22 | |
and lead us not into temptation, | 1:06:26 | |
but deliver us from evil. | 1:06:28 | |
For thine is the kingdom, | 1:06:31 | |
and the power and the glory, forever, Amen. | 1:06:33 | |
Would you who are presenting your children | 1:06:40 | |
for baptism come forward at that time, | 1:06:42 | |
and if there are friends or members of the family | 1:06:44 | |
who would like to come with you, we welcome them also. | 1:06:46 | |
- | Dearly beloved, | 1:07:29 |
baptism is an outward and visible sign | 1:07:31 | |
of the grace of the Lord, Jesus Christ. | 1:07:33 | |
Through which grace, we become partakers | 1:07:36 | |
of his righteousness and heirs of life eternal. | 1:07:39 | |
Those receiving the sacrament are thereby marked | 1:07:43 | |
as Christian disciples, and initiated | 1:07:46 | |
into the fellowship of Christ's holy church. | 1:07:48 | |
Our Lord has expressly given to little children a place | 1:07:52 | |
among the people of God, | 1:07:56 | |
which holy privilege must not be denied them. | 1:07:58 | |
Remember the words of the Lord Jesus Christ, | 1:08:01 | |
how he said, let the little children come to me, | 1:08:04 | |
do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. | 1:08:09 | |
- | Beloved, do you as parents, | 1:08:16 |
each of you, in presenting your son for Christian baptism, | 1:08:19 | |
do you confirm your own faith | 1:08:24 | |
in our Lord and savior, Jesus Christ? | 1:08:26 | |
- | We do | 1:08:29 |
- | Do you therefore accept as your bound and duty | 1:08:33 |
and privilege to live before this child, | 1:08:36 | |
a life that becomes the gospel, | 1:08:39 | |
to exercise all Godly care, | 1:08:41 | |
that he be brought up in the Christian faith, | 1:08:44 | |
that he be taught the holy scriptures, | 1:08:46 | |
and that he learned to give reverant attendance | 1:08:48 | |
upon the private and public worship of God? | 1:08:51 | |
- | We do | 1:08:54 |
- | Will you endeavor to keep your son | 1:08:57 |
under the ministry and guidance of the church, | 1:08:59 | |
until he by the power of God, | 1:09:02 | |
shall accept for himself, | 1:09:05 | |
the gift of salvation, | 1:09:07 | |
and be confirmed as a full and responsible member | 1:09:09 | |
of Christ's holy church? | 1:09:12 | |
- | We will | 1:09:15 |
- | Let us pray. | 1:09:16 |
Almighty God, we thank you for your faithfulness, | 1:09:19 | |
promised in this sacrament. | 1:09:23 | |
And for the hope we have in your son, Jesus. | 1:09:25 | |
As we baptize with water, baptize us with the Holy Spirit, | 1:09:29 | |
so that what we say may be your word, | 1:09:33 | |
and what we do may be your work. | 1:09:37 | |
By your power, may we be made one with Christ our Lord, | 1:09:39 | |
in common faith and purpose, amen. | 1:09:43 | |
- | In what name do you wish him to be baptized? | 1:09:58 |
(whispering) | 1:10:00 | |
- | Lynn Brooks, I baptize you in the name | 1:10:12 |
of the Father, and of the Son | 1:10:17 | |
and of the Holy Spirit, amen. | 1:10:20 | |
- | And what name do you give this child? | 1:10:35 |
- | Matthew Edwards Mossier. | 1:10:37 |
- | Matthew Edwards Mossier, I baptize you in the name | 1:10:40 |
of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, amen. | 1:10:43 | |
- | Let the congregation stand | 1:10:52 |
and respond if you will, please. | 1:10:54 | |
Brothers and sisters of the household of faith, | 1:11:01 | |
I command to your love and care, | 1:11:04 | |
Matthew Edward Mossier, Lynn Brooks Lastinger the third, | 1:11:08 | |
whom we, this day, recognize | 1:11:17 | |
as members of the family of God. | 1:11:20 | |
Will you endeavor to so live that Matthew | 1:11:24 | |
and Brooks may grow in the knowledge | 1:11:28 | |
and the love of God through our savior, Jesus, the Christ? | 1:11:31 | |
- | We will | 1:11:37 |
- | Dear friends, this is the first service, | 1:11:41 |
of the sacrament of baptism | 1:11:44 | |
we have had at the 11 o'clock hour | 1:11:47 | |
since I have been minister to the university here. | 1:11:50 | |
This was suggested by our worship committee. | 1:11:54 | |
So that all of us, as a worshiping community of Christians | 1:11:57 | |
might share in the joy of such a moment as this. | 1:12:02 | |
So it is our privilege now to present to you | 1:12:06 | |
these two persons whom we do recognize | 1:12:09 | |
as members of the family of God, | 1:12:12 | |
Lynn Brooks Lastinger, son of Lynn and Linda Lastinger. | 1:12:15 | |
Lynn has sung faithfully in the choir | 1:12:21 | |
for almost two years here now, | 1:12:24 | |
and will be finishing his work at the medical center | 1:12:27 | |
as an associate in Hematology | 1:12:30 | |
and Linda will be finishing her residency | 1:12:33 | |
in internal medicine at Chapel Hill. | 1:12:35 | |
They'll leave in June to go to Galax, Virginia. | 1:12:37 | |
It is my privilege to present Lynn Brooks the third to you. | 1:12:40 | |
(baby cries) | 1:12:45 | |
- | And I present to you Matthew Edwards Mossier, | 1:12:49 |
whose parents are Anne and Earl Mossier. | 1:12:52 | |
Anne is a nursing clinician at the medical center | 1:12:55 | |
here at Duke University and they will continue | 1:12:58 | |
to be a part of our fellowship. | 1:13:01 | |
I present to you Matthew, whom you have promised to love | 1:13:03 | |
and to nourish. | 1:13:07 | |
(baby cries) | 1:13:09 | |
- | Let us pray | 1:13:20 |
Almighty God, grant that Matthew and Brooks | 1:13:22 | |
as they grow in years, may also grow in grace | 1:13:26 | |
and in the knowledge that the Lord Jesus Christ, | 1:13:29 | |
and that by the restraining and renewing influence | 1:13:33 | |
of the Holy Spirit, they may ever be free children of yours, | 1:13:35 | |
serving faithfully all their days. | 1:13:39 | |
So guide and uphold the parents, and godparents | 1:13:43 | |
of these children, that by loving care, wise council, | 1:13:47 | |
and holy example they may lead them | 1:13:49 | |
into that life of faith whose strength is righteousness, | 1:13:53 | |
and whose fruit is everlasting joy and peace, | 1:13:57 | |
in Jesus Christ, our Lord, amen. | 1:14:00 | |
And now may God, our creator, God the Son, | 1:14:05 | |
and God the Holy Spirit, bless, preserve and keep them | 1:14:07 | |
now and forever more, amen. | 1:14:11 | |
(baby cries) | 1:14:13 | |
(mumbling) | 1:14:15 | |
- | Be seated. | 1:14:19 |
(organ music) | 1:14:21 | |
(uplifting music) | 1:19:24 | |
(joyful music) | 1:19:59 | |
(chorus singing) | 1:20:33 | |
- | Oh, giver of life, behind this offering | 1:21:16 |
lies the busy world of our working | 1:21:19 | |
the office, the production line, the home, | 1:21:22 | |
the classroom, the laboratory. | 1:21:25 | |
Save us from creating a world where wealth accumulates, | 1:21:29 | |
and people decay, accept this offering | 1:21:32 | |
and our lives, limited as they may be, | 1:21:36 | |
as willing instruments for good in your world, amen. | 1:21:39 | |
(organ music) | 1:21:46 | |
(chorus singing) | 1:23:08 | |
- | And now may the God of steadfastness, | 1:25:19 |
and encouragement grant you to live | 1:25:22 | |
in such harmony with one another, | 1:25:25 | |
in accord with Christ Jesus, | 1:25:27 | |
that together you may, with one voice, | 1:25:29 | |
glorify the God and father of our Lord, Jesus Christ, amen. | 1:25:32 | |
(organ music) | 1:25:39 |