Robert T. Young - "Living beyond Death" (November 2, 1975)
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♪ Hallelujah, Hallelujah, Hallelujah ♪ | 0:04 | |
♪ Hallelujah, Hallelujah ♪ | 0:08 | |
- | Most merciful and loving God. | 0:30 |
All we have is from you, our life and our death. | 0:34 | |
Accept this offering from your people | 0:40 | |
and so follow it and us with your blessing that | 0:42 | |
we may bring life and hope | 0:47 | |
and peace to your people who are suffering. | 0:49 | |
Amen. | 0:54 | |
(trumpet gospel music) | 1:03 | |
♪ Mine eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord ♪ | 2:03 | |
♪ He is trampling out the vintage ♪ | 2:06 | |
♪ where the grapes of wrath are stored ♪ | 2:08 | |
♪ He hath loosed the fateful lightning ♪ | 2:10 | |
♪ Of His terrible swift sword ♪ | 2:14 | |
♪ His truth is marching on ♪ | 2:15 | |
♪ Glory, Glory Hallelujah ♪ | 2:21 | |
♪ Glory, Glory Hallelujah ♪ | 2:26 | |
♪ Glory, Glory Hallelujah ♪ | 2:30 | |
♪ And his truth is marching on ♪ | 2:34 | |
♪ I have seen Him in the watch-fires ♪ | 2:39 | |
♪ of a hundred circling camps ♪ | 2:42 | |
♪ They had builded Him an altar ♪ | 2:44 | |
♪ in the evening dews and damps ♪ | 2:47 | |
♪ I can read His righteous sentence ♪ | 2:49 | |
♪ By the dim and flaring lamps ♪ | 2:52 | |
♪ His day is marching on ♪ | 2:54 | |
♪ Glory, Glory Hallelujah ♪ | 3:00 | |
♪Glory, Glory Hallelujah ♪ | 3:05 | |
♪ Glory, Glory Hallelujah ♪ | 3:10 | |
♪ His truth is marching on ♪ | 3:15 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 3:20 | |
(trumpet gospel music) | 4:02 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 4:36 | |
Go now in the assurance of God's love | 5:36 | |
and may the almighty and merciful and faithful God | 5:41 | |
who raised Jesus from the dead, bless us. | 5:44 | |
And may we be kept this day and forever more, | 5:48 | |
in the knowledge of God's love and truth. | 5:53 | |
Amen. | 5:57 | |
♪ His truth is marching on ♪ | 5:59 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 6:15 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 6:30 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 6:45 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 7:00 | |
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(instrumental gospel music) | 8:30 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 8:45 | |
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(instrumental gospel music) | 9:15 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 9:30 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 9:45 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 10:00 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 10:15 | |
(instrumental gospel music) | 10:30 | |
(clapping) | 10:50 |
(soft ambient music) | 0:07 | |
(soft ambient music) | 2:50 | |
(bright upbeat music) | 3:53 | |
(soft ambient music) | 5:51 | |
♪ When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound ♪ | 12:35 | |
♪ And time shall be no more ♪ | 12:38 | |
♪ And the morning breaks, eternal, bright and fair ♪ | 12:41 | |
♪ When the saved of earth shall gather ♪ | 12:46 | |
♪ Over on the other shore ♪ | 12:49 | |
♪ And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there ♪ | 12:51 | |
♪ When the roll is called up yonder ♪ | 12:57 | |
♪ When the roll is called up yonder ♪ | 13:02 | |
♪ When the roll is called up yonder ♪ | 13:08 | |
♪ When the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there ♪ | 13:17 | |
(soft ambient music) | 13:25 | |
(bright upbeat music) | 14:37 | |
(bright upbeat music) | 15:46 | |
(bright orchestral music) | 16:02 | |
- | Let us acknowledge and confess our sins, | 17:47 |
before Almighty God, and in the presence of our neighbors. | 17:51 | |
Oh God, our creator from whom we come | 17:58 | |
and into whom our spirits return. | 18:03 | |
We confess to you our slowness to accept death | 18:07 | |
as a part of your plan for our life. | 18:11 | |
We confess our reluctance to commit to you, | 18:15 | |
those who we love. | 18:19 | |
Oh God, | 18:22 | |
we know that there may be situations | 18:24 | |
which are worse than death. | 18:26 | |
Forgive us, | 18:30 | |
when we hurt and destroy our brothers and sisters | 18:31 | |
and the world you have given us, | 18:35 | |
our thought misdeeds, | 18:38 | |
our careless actions and our lack of love. | 18:40 | |
And give us grace in the presence of death that pain | 18:45 | |
to worship you and to trust you with confidence | 18:50 | |
through Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen. | 18:56 | |
Oh Lord, hear us as we make our personal confession to you. | 19:00 | |
Amen. | 19:19 | |
Hear the good news, | 19:22 | |
nothing can separate us from the love of God, | 19:24 | |
not our sin, no tribulation, no distress or persecution, | 19:28 | |
neither death nor life, no anything, | 19:35 | |
and all of creation will be able to separate us | 19:39 | |
from the love of God, | 19:43 | |
which we know in Christ Jesus, our Lord. | 19:45 | |
For this, we give thanks and sing hallelujah. | 19:49 | |
(bright classical music) | 20:00 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:07 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:11 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:16 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:20 | |
♪ For the Lord God Omnipotent reigneth ♪ | 20:25 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:31 | |
♪ For the Lord God omnipotent reigneth ♪ | 20:35 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:41 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:47 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:51 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 20:58 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 21:07 | |
♪ The kingdom of this world ♪ | 21:11 | |
♪ Is become the kingdom of our Lord ♪ | 21:17 | |
♪ And of His Christ, and of His Christ ♪ | 21:23 | |
♪ And He shall reign for ever and ever ♪ | 21:27 | |
♪ And He shall reign for ever and ever ♪ | 21:32 | |
♪ And He shall reign for ever and ever ♪ | 21:38 | |
♪ For ever and ever, forever and ever ♪ | 21:45 | |
♪ King of kings Forever and ever Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 21:49 | |
♪ And Lord of lords Forever and ever Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 21:54 | |
♪ King of kings Forever and ever Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 22:01 | |
♪ And Lord of lords Forever and ever Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 22:07 | |
♪ King of kings Forever and ever Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 22:13 | |
♪ And Lord of lords King of kings and Lord of lords ♪ | 22:19 | |
♪ And He shall reign ♪ | 22:25 | |
♪ And He shall reign ♪ | 22:27 | |
♪ And He shall reign forever and ever ♪ | 22:30 | |
♪ King of kings Forever and ever ♪ | 22:35 | |
♪ And Lord of Lords Hallelujah, Hallelujah ♪ | 22:39 | |
♪ And He shall reign forever and ever ♪ | 22:43 | |
♪ King of kings! and Lord of lords ♪ | 22:50 | |
♪ King of kings! and Lord of lords ♪ | 22:54 | |
♪ And He shall reign forever and ever ♪ | 22:58 | |
♪ Forever and ever ♪ | 23:04 | |
♪ Forever and ever ♪ | 23:06 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 23:08 | |
♪ Hallelujah! Hallelujah ♪ | 23:10 | |
♪ Hallelujah ♪ | 23:14 | |
- | The epistle lesson for this morning, | 23:50 |
is from First Corinthians 15:35 | 23:53 | |
through 44 and 51 through 57. | 23:56 | |
"But some will ask how are the dead raised? | 24:03 | |
"With what kind of body do they come? | 24:07 | |
"You foolish, man, | 24:11 | |
"what you sow does not come to life unless it dies. | 24:13 | |
"And what you sow is not the body, which has to be, | 24:18 | |
"but a bare kernel perhaps of wheat or of some other grain. | 24:22 | |
"But God gives it a body as he has chosen | 24:28 | |
"and to each kind of seed its own body | 24:32 | |
"for not all flesh is alike, | 24:36 | |
"but there is one kind for men, another for animals, | 24:39 | |
"another for birds and another for fish, | 24:44 | |
"there are celestial bodies and there are terrestrial bodies | 24:48 | |
"but the glory of the celestial one | 24:53 | |
"and the glory of the terrestrial one is another. | 24:56 | |
"There is one glory of the sun | 25:00 | |
"and another glory of the moon. | 25:03 | |
"And another glory of the stars, | 25:05 | |
"for star differs from star in glory. | 25:08 | |
"So is it with a resurrection of the dead. | 25:12 | |
"What is sown is perishable? | 25:16 | |
"What is raised is imperishable. | 25:19 | |
"It is sown in dishonor, | 25:22 | |
"it is raised in glory. | 25:24 | |
"It is sown in weakness, | 25:27 | |
"it is raised in power. | 25:29 | |
"It is sown a physical body, | 25:32 | |
"it is raised a spiritual body. | 25:35 | |
"If there is a physical body, | 25:38 | |
"there is also a spiritual body. | 25:41 | |
"Lo I tell you a mystery. | 25:44 | |
"We shall not all sleep, | 25:48 | |
"but we shall all be changed in a moment | 25:50 | |
"in the twinkling of an eye at the last trumpet. | 25:54 | |
"For the trumpet will sound | 25:58 | |
"and the dead will be raised imperishable | 25:59 | |
"and we shall be changed. | 26:02 | |
"For this perishable nature must put on imperishable | 26:04 | |
"and this mortal nature must put on immortality. | 26:08 | |
"When the perishable puts on the imperishable | 26:12 | |
"and the mortal puts on immortality, | 26:15 | |
"then shall come to pass the saying that is written, | 26:19 | |
"Death is swallowed up in victory. | 26:23 | |
"Oh death, where is thy victory? | 26:26 | |
"Oh, death, where is thy sting? | 26:30 | |
"The sting of death is sin and the power of sin the law. | 26:33 | |
"But thanks be to God who gives us the victory | 26:39 | |
"through our Lord Jesus Christ." | 26:43 | |
The gospel reading is from John 14, one through six, | 26:47 | |
15 through nine. | 26:51 | |
"Let not your hearts be troubled, | 27:03 | |
"believe in God, believe also in me. | 27:05 | |
"In my father's house are many mansions, | 27:09 | |
"if it were not so, would I have told you | 27:12 | |
"that I go to prepare a place for you. | 27:15 | |
"And when I go and prepare a place for you, | 27:18 | |
"I will come again and will take you to myself. | 27:21 | |
"That where I am, you may be also. | 27:26 | |
"And you know the way where I am going. | 27:29 | |
"Thomas said to him, Lord, | 27:32 | |
"We do not know where you are going, | 27:35 | |
"how can we know the way? | 27:37 | |
"Jesus said to him, | 27:39 | |
"I am the way and the truth and the life, | 27:41 | |
"no one comes to the father but by me." | 27:46 | |
"If you love me, you will keep my commandments. | 27:51 | |
"And I will pray the father. | 27:55 | |
"And he will give you another counselor, | 27:57 | |
"to be with you forever. | 27:59 | |
"Even the spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive | 28:01 | |
"because it neither sees him nor knows him. | 28:06 | |
"You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you. | 28:10 | |
"I will not leave you desolate, I will come to you. | 28:15 | |
"Yet a little while and the world will see me no more, | 28:19 | |
"but you will see me, because I live, you will live also." | 28:23 | |
That's the end of the reading of the gospel. | 28:29 | |
(bright orchestral music) | 28:32 | |
- | Let us with one voice affirm our faith. | 29:15 |
We are not alone. | 29:20 | |
We live in God's word. | 29:22 | |
We believe in God, who has created and is creating, | 29:24 | |
who has come in the truly human Jesus | 29:30 | |
to reconcile and make new. | 29:33 | |
Who works in us and others by the spirit. | 29:36 | |
We trust God who calls us to be the church | 29:40 | |
to celebrate life at its fullest, to love and serve others, | 29:45 | |
to seek justice and resist the evil, | 29:51 | |
to proclaim Jesus, crucified and risen, | 29:54 | |
our judge and our hope, | 29:58 | |
in life, in death and life beyond death, | 30:01 | |
God is with us, we are not alone, | 30:06 | |
thanks be to God. | 30:10 | |
The Lord be with you. | 30:13 | |
Let us pray. | 30:17 | |
Eternal God, Almighty creator, | 30:29 | |
maker of heaven and earth, we worship you. | 30:34 | |
Your wisdom is beyond our understanding. | 30:40 | |
Your power is greater than we can measure. | 30:45 | |
Give us grace to apprehend this power and wisdom, | 30:50 | |
which lie beyond our understanding | 30:56 | |
and in our worship to feel that which we do not know, | 31:00 | |
and to praise that which we do not completely understand | 31:05 | |
and to rejoice in the presence of your glory, | 31:10 | |
which we feel in this our worship. | 31:13 | |
We thank you Holy God | 31:19 | |
that you have made us creators together with you, | 31:21 | |
that you have given us this ability to make beautiful music, | 31:27 | |
to proclaim your love, | 31:34 | |
to use this earth and its wonder for your glory | 31:36 | |
and the nurture of your children. | 31:41 | |
Help us to be responsible to you in our creativity. | 31:45 | |
Look with pity and love, oh God, | 31:52 | |
upon this your world in its sorrow | 31:54 | |
with the sighing of your children, | 31:57 | |
for we are engulfed by the evil of our own contriving. | 32:01 | |
May those who suffer because they are guilty, | 32:07 | |
learn the godless sorrow of true repentance. | 32:11 | |
May those who suffer innocently | 32:16 | |
have a vision of the suffering of Christ | 32:19 | |
and know that there can be redemption in their pain. | 32:22 | |
Help us, oh God, to be instruments of your mercy, | 32:28 | |
servants of your love, to all who suffer, | 32:33 | |
binding up their wounds, | 32:37 | |
stealing their hunger and restoring them | 32:40 | |
to a loving community. | 32:45 | |
We give you thanks for all persons | 32:48 | |
who have as their vocation to bringing a fullness | 32:51 | |
and wholeness of life, to all your children, | 32:53 | |
the doctors, the nurses, the teachers, the researchers, | 32:56 | |
the ministers and all who work | 33:01 | |
that we may have life. | 33:04 | |
We give thanks for all who have gone before us | 33:08 | |
and have preceded us into death | 33:10 | |
for the love and continued remnants of those we know | 33:13 | |
who've have died during this past year. | 33:17 | |
We pause now, oh God, to lift these people silently to you, | 33:21 | |
Bless their memory. | 33:40 | |
We lift you, oh God, | 33:43 | |
those persons who know no grief and pain and sorrow. | 33:45 | |
Those for whom life holds no meaning, | 33:50 | |
those persons who are critically ill | 33:53 | |
and those who grieve because persons they love, | 33:57 | |
are near death. | 34:01 | |
Comfort and support and sustain us in our time of grief. | 34:03 | |
Oh Lord, you are not a God of the dead, | 34:12 | |
but of living people. | 34:16 | |
We ask you who have made us to bless us and keep us alive. | 34:19 | |
Receive us when we die, | 34:25 | |
renew us when we grow old or tired or discouraged | 34:27 | |
and make us open if we become close to you, | 34:33 | |
we pray in the spirit of Jesus, the Christ | 34:37 | |
who taught us all to pray, | 34:41 | |
our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, | 34:44 | |
thy kingdom come, | 34:51 | |
thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. | 34:53 | |
Give us this day, our daily bread | 34:58 | |
and forgive us our trespasses | 35:01 | |
as we forgive those who trespass against us | 35:04 | |
and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, | 35:08 | |
for thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory, | 35:13 | |
forever and ever, Amen. | 35:19 | |
- | In the name of God who creates, sustains | 35:39 |
and offers us the promise of life eternal, Amen. | 35:44 | |
Dr. Paul Tillich in a sermon of his entitled, | 35:52 | |
"The Eternal Now", writes, | 35:55 | |
"It is our destiny and the destiny of everyone in our world | 35:59 | |
"that we must come to an end. | 36:06 | |
"You will also come to an end." | 36:11 | |
Or as Carl Reiner puts it, | 36:17 | |
it is not a question of whether, but of how. | 36:19 | |
And so each of us lives his or her three score years and 10 | 36:25 | |
or 26,000 days or more or less years and days and so what. | 36:29 | |
Death is still not a question of whether, but of how. | 36:37 | |
Everything must come to an end. | 36:44 | |
And so recent news stories tell us again and again of death, | 36:50 | |
the threat of death, and for some, even the hope of death. | 36:54 | |
Two different assassination attempts have been made | 37:00 | |
on the life of the president of the United States. | 37:02 | |
And the wife of the president says, | 37:05 | |
simply we know that this is a part of the risk of the office | 37:07 | |
and we accept it. | 37:11 | |
General Francisco Franco of Spain | 37:14 | |
lies four days near the point of death | 37:17 | |
and all of Spain waits and the entire world watches | 37:19 | |
as an aged leader approaches death. | 37:23 | |
We all have been reading recently of Karen Ann Quinlan, | 37:27 | |
a 21 year old young adult who has been lying in her bed | 37:32 | |
for six months in Denville, New Jersey | 37:37 | |
kept alive only by means of an artificial respirator. | 37:41 | |
Her parents with the advice and the support of her church | 37:46 | |
have asked the doctors to let her die | 37:50 | |
and to use her father's words, "with grace and dignity." | 37:53 | |
Recently, Dr. Henry P Van Dusen and his wife, | 37:58 | |
took their own lives at the same time. | 38:01 | |
For those of you who know who Dr. Van Dusen is, | 38:06 | |
you know that this was a shock and a surprise | 38:09 | |
because for a number of years, | 38:13 | |
this man had been president of union theological seminary | 38:14 | |
in New York city and a leader in the theological world. | 38:17 | |
He and his wife had reached their eighties. | 38:23 | |
They wrote letters to their children | 38:26 | |
and to their grandchildren saying | 38:28 | |
simply we do not want to be a burden on you | 38:29 | |
or on anyone else or on society. | 38:33 | |
And then they said, we are not afraid to die. | 38:36 | |
Norman Cousins in the Saturday Review editorial | 38:42 | |
commenting on the Van Dusen death, | 38:45 | |
said, "Death is not the greatest loss in life. | 38:47 | |
"The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live. | 38:52 | |
"The unbearable tragedy is to live without dignity." | 38:56 | |
Dr. Elizazeth Kubler Ross, noted psychiatrist and author, | 39:03 | |
who is well known for her extensive work with the dying | 39:09 | |
and for her book entitled "On Death and Dying" | 39:13 | |
has been in the news recently | 39:16 | |
with some of her views on life after death. | 39:18 | |
And she writes, | 39:23 | |
"I have never been religious in the conventional | 39:25 | |
"church going since, but in the last years, | 39:29 | |
"my ideas about death have begun to change. | 39:33 | |
"I used to think that death was the end of everything. | 39:37 | |
"Now I'm certain it is not. | 39:43 | |
"From the bottom of my heart. | 39:47 | |
"I can say, I believe there is no death. | 39:50 | |
"Only the body dies. | 39:55 | |
"I now do believe in a life after death, | 39:58 | |
"beyond a shadow of a doubt, | 40:01 | |
"I have come to believe that death may be a very beautiful | 40:04 | |
"experience and not something to fear." | 40:07 | |
And so this morning, my friends in Christ | 40:12 | |
with news stories and experiences | 40:14 | |
of the famous and of the not so famous | 40:17 | |
is introduction and background, | 40:19 | |
what of a Christian word on death and living beyond death | 40:22 | |
as on this Sunday and thanks to the choir | 40:25 | |
and to John Harding and the jazz lab band | 40:28 | |
for the magnificent moving hallelujah chorus. | 40:31 | |
As we celebrate this morning, | 40:36 | |
the Sunday after all the saints day. | 40:37 | |
Randolph Crump Miller says that whimsy and humor | 40:40 | |
are to be combined with a serious faith | 40:44 | |
in the meaning of life and death. | 40:47 | |
And then I remember the child's letter | 40:51 | |
in the little book of simple, but very profound insight, | 40:52 | |
a little book entitled "Children's Letters to God." | 40:57 | |
And this one particular letter reads, | 41:00 | |
"dear God, what is it like when you die? | 41:02 | |
"Nobody will tell me. | 41:06 | |
"I just want to know, I don't want to do it. | 41:09 | |
"Your friend Mark." | 41:12 | |
Well, most of us are like God's little friend, Mark. | 41:15 | |
We want to know what life is like when we die. | 41:19 | |
We don't want to do it yet, | 41:22 | |
though God, we just want to know. | 41:23 | |
When I think of living beyond death, | 41:29 | |
one verse of scripture comes readily to mind, | 41:31 | |
and that is in Paul's writing to the church at Corinth | 41:33 | |
in First Corinthians 2:9, where he says, | 41:36 | |
"Eye has not seen nor ear heard. | 41:38 | |
"Neither has it entered into the mind of anyone, | 41:41 | |
"those glorious things, | 41:44 | |
"which God has prepared for those who love him." | 41:46 | |
No, no eye has seen, no ear has heard | 41:50 | |
neither has it entered into the mind of any person. | 41:53 | |
We do not know, we only believe. | 41:57 | |
So keep that verse in mind this morning. | 42:04 | |
And perhaps you may want to keep it in mind | 42:06 | |
beyond this morning, because when all is said and done, | 42:09 | |
and when all is written and even when all is understood | 42:13 | |
about living beyond death, this word does remain true. | 42:16 | |
We do not know, | 42:21 | |
we only believe. | 42:23 | |
And so talk of life and death and living beyond death | 42:27 | |
brings all kinds of fears to the surface | 42:34 | |
for many of us in ham. | 42:37 | |
It seems to me that there are basically three aspects | 42:41 | |
of living and dying and death and the presence of fear, | 42:44 | |
the very presence of fear which may be considered. | 42:49 | |
And the first place some people say | 42:53 | |
that they do not fear death, | 42:55 | |
they fear only the suffering that they may have to endure | 42:56 | |
before they actually die. | 42:59 | |
The late great preacher at city temple in London, | 43:02 | |
Dr. Leslie Weatherhead is, or was one of these. | 43:05 | |
He said once, "I am not afraid to die, | 43:08 | |
"I am afraid of the suffering, | 43:11 | |
"which may lie between my present healthy state and death." | 43:12 | |
But the idea of dying he says, "is attractive to me | 43:16 | |
"to wake up amongst old friends, | 43:20 | |
"with a new body that doesn't hurt anymore | 43:22 | |
"and is not worn out is most attractive. | 43:25 | |
"I am not afraid to die, I am afraid of suffering." | 43:29 | |
In the second place, | 43:34 | |
some people simply say they do fear death. | 43:35 | |
The mystery of it, the unknown of it, the finality of it, | 43:37 | |
the apparent futility of it. | 43:41 | |
Psychiatrist, Margaretta K. Bowers | 43:44 | |
writes the great bulk of normal people, | 43:46 | |
who face death are terrified. | 43:50 | |
And they have all sorts of different ways | 43:52 | |
of controlling this. | 43:54 | |
Not always successfully, | 43:56 | |
but all have some kind of coping technique. | 43:58 | |
And Dr. Joel Posner of Philadelphia is quoted | 44:02 | |
in this week's Newsweek feature article entitled | 44:04 | |
"A right to die." | 44:07 | |
And he says, | 44:08 | |
"I have seldom seen anybody die with peace and dignity. | 44:09 | |
"They all have tubes and pain and they're scared." | 44:14 | |
Then in the third place, | 44:22 | |
some people say they fear what lies beyond death, | 44:23 | |
or fear that nothing is beyond death | 44:26 | |
or fear that this life is it | 44:28 | |
at death it's all finished, the end | 44:30 | |
or they are afraid because they just do not know | 44:32 | |
if I really knew they would say, | 44:35 | |
or if I could just be sure they say, | 44:37 | |
or if only I knew or had some glimpse | 44:40 | |
or some idea of what it would be like, | 44:42 | |
it is the unseen, the unknown, | 44:44 | |
the uncertain, the unforeseeable, | 44:46 | |
the unknowable that is fearful to some persons. | 44:48 | |
A Blackfoot Indian named Crowfoot described this feeling, | 44:52 | |
as he wrote "From nowhere, we came and into nowhere we go, | 44:57 | |
"what is life? | 45:05 | |
"It is the flash of a Firefly in the night. | 45:07 | |
"It is the breadth of a Buffalo in winter time. | 45:11 | |
"It is the little shadow | 45:17 | |
"that runs across the grass | 45:18 | |
"and loses itself in the sunset. | 45:22 | |
"From nowhere we come and then to know where we go." | 45:26 | |
And this thought is fearful to some. | 45:31 | |
When I think of these three fear feeling | 45:35 | |
dimensions of life and death, | 45:38 | |
I'm reminded of the response you often hear | 45:40 | |
when someone asks you after dinner, | 45:43 | |
what would you like to have for dessert, | 45:46 | |
ice cream or pie or cake? | 45:48 | |
And you say yes, all three. | 45:50 | |
And if you were to ask me, Bob, | 45:56 | |
what are you afraid of suffering before death, | 45:57 | |
death itself or that which lies beyond death? | 46:02 | |
I would say yes, all three. | 46:06 | |
So as I talk with you this morning | 46:13 | |
about living beyond death, | 46:14 | |
I feel some need to tell you some of my own feelings | 46:15 | |
about life and death and thus about some of my fears. | 46:18 | |
Ever since I was a little boy, I've been afraid of death, | 46:25 | |
to think about it scared me, | 46:31 | |
to hear about it frightened me, | 46:35 | |
to talk about it made me upset. | 46:38 | |
So we didn't, not at my house. | 46:41 | |
I was 16 years old before I went to my first funeral | 46:44 | |
or saw someone who was dead. | 46:47 | |
I really didn't know what it was that I feared or why. | 46:49 | |
And no one talked with me or gave me a chance | 46:52 | |
to talk about my feelings. | 46:56 | |
And as I entered the ministry | 47:00 | |
and came to the Divinity School here at Duke, | 47:01 | |
these feelings continued with me even at the age of 22. | 47:03 | |
I was scared to death | 47:07 | |
at the thought of being around the dying. | 47:08 | |
As a matter of fact, I only took one course in pastoral care | 47:13 | |
in the Divinity School because I was afraid | 47:16 | |
that if I took another one, | 47:18 | |
I'd have to be on call in the hospital here. | 47:19 | |
And that would mean being around death and dying. | 47:22 | |
The one thing about the ministry that I dreaded most | 47:26 | |
was having to make hospital calls | 47:28 | |
and being near those who were dying, | 47:31 | |
but God took care of that. | 47:33 | |
On my first parish, | 47:35 | |
one of the first telephone calls I received was from a woman | 47:37 | |
who said, my husband is dying of cancer. | 47:40 | |
I'd like for you to be our pastor, | 47:43 | |
God has a way of taking care of us | 47:47 | |
and some of our deeper fears and feelings. | 47:52 | |
And so for six weeks, | 47:56 | |
I visited with him as he slowly lay dying. | 47:57 | |
My friends, may I tell you that my fear of death | 48:03 | |
has given me a heightened awareness of some of those things | 48:06 | |
that have been going on around me and within me. | 48:13 | |
And two insights have become powerfully real to me. | 48:18 | |
One of these insights and one of these awarenesses | 48:24 | |
that has come to me is the feeling of awe and reverence | 48:27 | |
that I have known as I have stood beside the bed | 48:33 | |
of a dying man or woman and have shared. | 48:37 | |
And I remember particularly the first time | 48:41 | |
as I stood beside the bed of a man | 48:43 | |
and shared for the first time, | 48:46 | |
my experience of seeing him breathing and here in one moment | 48:48 | |
and not breathing and not here in the next. | 48:55 | |
Now you talk about awe and reverence | 48:59 | |
and mystery and being overcome, | 49:04 | |
all of these feelings and many more, | 49:08 | |
were very, very pressing. | 49:11 | |
Here he was, and then he wasn't. | 49:15 | |
Strange as it may seem, I can still recall, | 49:20 | |
and even sense the numinous presence of God, | 49:23 | |
which I felt in that very, very moment, | 49:28 | |
in that twinkling of an eye, which Barbara read to us. | 49:33 | |
The mystery and the majesty, | 49:38 | |
the awfulness and the awesomeness. | 49:41 | |
And here's some words of Charles Dickens come to my mind | 49:46 | |
as he once wrote. | 49:49 | |
"It is a disturbing thing to do anything for the last time." | 49:49 | |
And so it is, my fear of death has helped me | 49:58 | |
to know the majesty of the moment of death. | 50:02 | |
My fear of death also has taught me the value, | 50:09 | |
the real value of life. | 50:14 | |
I have a very, very, very dear friend | 50:17 | |
who does not believe in the resurrection. | 50:21 | |
He does not believe in life beyond it. | 50:24 | |
He thinks that when death comes that there is no more. | 50:28 | |
And I said to him, one time, Ed, | 50:30 | |
I don't really see how you get along now | 50:34 | |
with no hope of life after death. | 50:38 | |
It seems to me that that that would ruin life for you now. | 50:41 | |
And he replied not at all, Bob, as a matter of fact, | 50:47 | |
that awareness in me makes this life | 50:52 | |
all that much more important. | 50:54 | |
If this is all, | 50:57 | |
then I want to get the most out of this life | 50:58 | |
that I possibly can. | 51:00 | |
I'm going to live it to its very fullest. | 51:02 | |
And this man does in a caring, healing helpful way. | 51:06 | |
And so, as I have stood by and with the dying | 51:11 | |
and with their families, I have indeed become convinced | 51:15 | |
that the inevitability for death of death for each of us, | 51:18 | |
should cause us to place the greatest of value on life, | 51:21 | |
as we are privileged to live. | 51:29 | |
Maybe, just maybe, | 51:34 | |
that's what death is intended to do after all, | 51:38 | |
to teach us the value of life, | 51:43 | |
how important it is, how valuable it is, | 51:47 | |
how filled with possibilities | 51:51 | |
or when one faces the reality of death. | 51:55 | |
The reality of one's own death, | 51:57 | |
life does take on a newer and deeper meaning. | 52:00 | |
You know the name of Abraham Maslow, a noted psychologist, | 52:08 | |
after having had a heart attack, | 52:15 | |
Maslow wrote about his, what he calls his post mortem life. | 52:19 | |
"My attitude toward life changed, | 52:26 | |
"the word I use for it now is the post-mortem life. | 52:30 | |
"I could just as easily have died | 52:34 | |
"so that my living now constitutes a kind of extra a bonus. | 52:37 | |
"It's all gravy." | 52:41 | |
Hmm, interesting how psychologists talk at times, isn't it?. | 52:43 | |
Therefore I might just as well live | 52:47 | |
as if I had already died. | 52:49 | |
One very important aspect of the post-mortem life is that | 52:53 | |
everything gets doubly precious, gets piercingly important. | 52:56 | |
You get stabbed by things by flowers | 53:01 | |
and by babies and by beautiful things, | 53:05 | |
just the very act of living of walking and breathing | 53:08 | |
and eating and having friends and chatting. | 53:11 | |
Everything seems to look more beautiful. | 53:15 | |
And Brian Kirkland in his book "Home Before Dark" | 53:21 | |
tells of this same insight, as he says, | 53:23 | |
"a certain majesty enters the lives of men and women | 53:29 | |
"who have brushed the wings of death | 53:35 | |
"and have returned to their daily toil." | 53:38 | |
A new meaning enters into the commonplace. | 53:41 | |
A new tenderness encompasses the family circle | 53:44 | |
when a man has confronted death, | 53:48 | |
though, others may not see it. | 53:50 | |
The fact that he comes home more directly from work, | 53:52 | |
may escape his wife's notice, | 53:55 | |
but for him who has been granted to stay | 53:57 | |
from perhaps never returning home again, | 54:00 | |
it makes a new perspective of love and devotion. | 54:04 | |
Perhaps, just perhaps, | 54:11 | |
facing the reality of death | 54:16 | |
is intended to help us to see | 54:20 | |
the real value of life every moment, perhaps. | 54:23 | |
But then what do we say of living beyond death? | 54:33 | |
After we have said, as we did at the beginning, | 54:38 | |
eye has not seen nor ear heard, | 54:40 | |
neither has it entered into the mind of anyone, | 54:42 | |
those things, which God has prepared for those who love him. | 54:46 | |
What do we say then of living beyond death? | 54:50 | |
Emerson Harris has an intriguing little poem, | 54:54 | |
entitled "Strawberry Shortcake." | 54:58 | |
I heard a good man say he writes at the funeral of a friend | 55:02 | |
that unless he believed in the immortality of the soul, | 55:08 | |
there was nothing to live for, | 55:11 | |
nothing to hope for. | 55:13 | |
It was the hope of their mortality that gave his life | 55:15 | |
what a meaning and riches he knew he had found. | 55:18 | |
I could not agree with him. | 55:22 | |
Immortality, is like a maraschino cherry | 55:26 | |
on a strawberry shortcake. | 55:30 | |
The cherry adds color and taste to the delicacy. | 55:33 | |
But if it were not there, | 55:38 | |
I would find the cake and the berries | 55:39 | |
and the whipped cream to be quite delicious. | 55:41 | |
And this would be sufficient. | 55:44 | |
And I would say, God, thanks for the strawberries | 55:46 | |
and the cake and the whipped cream. | 55:49 | |
Put the cherry on if you wish, | 55:52 | |
but without the cherry, the rest is enough. | 55:54 | |
Thanks God for life. | 55:58 | |
Living beyond death, the resurrection, | 56:03 | |
the maraschino cherry added to the strawberry | 56:08 | |
shortcake of life. | 56:10 | |
What can we say of living beyond death? | 56:11 | |
After eye has not seen nor ear heard, | 56:15 | |
we do not know, we only believe, | 56:21 | |
but we believe based on promise. | 56:26 | |
The promise found in God's word. | 56:30 | |
We live with promise and we die with promise, | 56:32 | |
the promise of our Lord and our God. | 56:36 | |
Surely we are, as Paul says, | 56:40 | |
surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses | 56:43 | |
or as Paul writes, I am persuaded that nothing, | 56:47 | |
there is absolutely nothing which shall separate us | 56:54 | |
from the love of God in Christ Jesus, our Lord, | 56:58 | |
or as Jesus said, let not your hearts be troubled. | 57:03 | |
He who believes in me shall never die. | 57:11 | |
And whoever lives and believes in me | 57:13 | |
shall have life everlasting. | 57:15 | |
Those who come to me, I will in no wise cast out. | 57:20 | |
Today, he said to the thief dying at the same time he died, | 57:24 | |
today, you shall be with me in paradise. | 57:29 | |
A promise, yes. | 57:33 | |
Living beyond death is a matter of living | 57:38 | |
with the promises of God. | 57:40 | |
But my friends, that's nothing new. | 57:45 | |
We live by promises all the time, | 57:50 | |
as in life, so in death. | 57:55 | |
We live by promises from those persons whom we trust. | 57:59 | |
We listen and we hear a word and we trust. | 58:04 | |
To a husband or a wife, the promise is, I will love you. | 58:12 | |
To a child, the promise is I will care for you. | 58:22 | |
To a class, the promise of the professor is, | 58:29 | |
I will help you to learn. | 58:33 | |
To a person facing surgery, | 58:37 | |
the promise is, I will watch over you. | 58:40 | |
To a friend going away, the promise is, I will wait for you. | 58:45 | |
And to those who are here, | 58:54 | |
the promise is I go to prepare a place for you. | 58:57 | |
And if I go and prepare a place for you, | 59:03 | |
then I will come again and will take you to myself | 59:05 | |
that where I am there, you may be also. | 59:09 | |
Robert Ox, in a little book of his, | 59:15 | |
just recently published, writes, | 59:18 | |
"To be a person means to count forever" | 59:22 | |
And God, in Christ says to you, and to me, you are a person | 59:31 | |
and you count forever. | 59:38 | |
In life we say, we said a moment ago | 59:42 | |
in our affirmation of faith in life, in death, | 59:44 | |
in life beyond death, God is with us. | 59:48 | |
Amen, | 59:54 | |
and amen. | 59:56 | |
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♪ Amazing grace ♪ | 1:00:59 | |
♪ How sweet the sound ♪ | 1:01:03 | |
♪ That saved a wretch like me ♪ | 1:01:07 | |
♪ I once was lost, but now I'm found ♪ | 1:01:15 | |
♪ Was blind, but now I see ♪ | 1:01:22 | |
♪ 'Twas grace that taught my heart to fear ♪ | 1:01:30 | |
♪ And grace my fears relieved ♪ | 1:01:38 | |
♪ How precious did that grace appear ♪ | 1:01:46 | |
♪ The hour I first believed ♪ | 1:01:54 | |
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