Robert T. Young - "The Prodigals in the Parable" (March 20, 1977)
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(soft orchestral music) | 0:03 | |
- | Duke University Chapel service of worship | 0:07 |
for Sunday, Inland, March 20th, 1977, 11 o'clock. | 0:11 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 0:17 | |
♪ Beautiful ♪ | 12:57 | |
♪ Savior ♪ | 13:01 | |
♪ Lord of the Nations ♪ | 13:06 | |
♪ Son of God ♪ | 13:14 | |
♪ And son ♪ | 13:19 | |
♪ Of man ♪ | 13:22 | |
♪ Glory ♪ | 13:28 | |
♪ And honor ♪ | 13:31 | |
♪ Praise adoration ♪ | 13:35 | |
♪ Now and forevermore ♪ | 13:41 | |
♪ Be thine ♪ | 13:48 | |
♪ Now and forever ♪ | 13:53 | |
♪ Now and forevermore ♪ | 13:57 | |
♪ Be ♪ | 14:06 | |
♪ Thine ♪ | 14:09 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 14:16 | |
(organ drowns music) | 14:55 | |
- | Dear people of God let us in honesty, | 18:48 |
and in humility, make our corporate confession of sin | 18:52 | |
using this litany of confession. | 18:57 | |
For the harsh words, we have spoken to our neighbors. | 19:02 | |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:07 |
- | For the resentments and festers | 19:09 |
held against an acquaintance. | 19:12 | |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:15 |
- | For the ungrateful way we exhibit | 19:17 |
our disrespect of parents. | 19:20 | |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:23 |
- | For our smug gluttony, | 19:26 |
amid the starvation of millions of persons daily. | 19:28 | |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:33 |
- | For the unwillingness to serve when needed | 19:35 |
in the work of our Lord. | 19:38 | |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:41 |
- | For an eagerness to complain and criticize other people. | 19:44 |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:49 |
- | For the stubborn refusal to accept other persons, | 19:51 |
not like ourselves. | 19:54 | |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 19:57 |
- | For an unwillingness to walk in the way of our Lord. | 20:00 |
- | Forgive us O, Lord. | 20:05 |
Amen. | 20:20 | |
Far as the heavens are high above the earth | 20:21 | |
so great is God's steadfast love and forgiveness for us | 20:25 | |
and for those who acknowledge their sin. | 20:31 | |
As far as the east is from the west | 20:35 | |
so does God remove our transgressions from us | 20:39 | |
and for this, we give thanks. | 20:44 | |
Amen. | 20:46 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 20:51 | |
- | Here the reading of God's word. | 23:45 |
"You will say in that day, | 23:48 | |
I'll give thanks to thee Lord | 23:51 | |
for though thou whatst angry with me, | 23:53 | |
thy anger turned away and thou didst comfort me. | 23:56 | |
Behold God is my salvation. | 24:00 | |
I will trust and will not be afraid. | 24:03 | |
Well, the God is my strength and my song, | 24:06 | |
and he has become my salvation. | 24:09 | |
With joy you will draw the water | 24:12 | |
from the Wells of salvation, | 24:14 | |
and you will say in that day, give thanks to the Lord. | 24:16 | |
Call upon his name, | 24:20 | |
make known his deeds among the nations, | 24:22 | |
proclaim that his name is exalted. | 24:24 | |
Sing praises to the Lord for he has done gloriously. | 24:27 | |
Let this be known in all the earth, | 24:31 | |
shout and sing for joy, oh inhabitants of Zion. | 24:34 | |
For great is your midst in the Holy one of Israel." | 24:39 | |
May we stand for the reading of the gospel. | 24:44 | |
"And he said there was a man who had two sons | 24:55 | |
and the younger of them said to his father, | 25:00 | |
"Father give me the share of property that falls to me." | 25:02 | |
And he divided his living between them. | 25:06 | |
Not many days later, the young son gathered all that he had | 25:09 | |
and took his journey into a far country. | 25:12 | |
And there he squandered his property in loose living. | 25:15 | |
And when he had spent everything, | 25:18 | |
a great famine arose in that country | 25:20 | |
and he began to be in want. | 25:22 | |
So he went and joined himself to one of the citizens | 25:25 | |
of that country, who sent him into the fields | 25:27 | |
to feed the swine. | 25:30 | |
And he would gladly feed on them | 25:32 | |
the pods that the swine ate | 25:34 | |
and no one gave him anything. | 25:37 | |
But when he came to himself, he said, | 25:39 | |
"How many of my father's hired servants | 25:41 | |
have bread enough to spare, but I perish with hunger. | 25:44 | |
I will arise and go to my father and I will say to him, | 25:49 | |
father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, | 25:52 | |
I am no longer worthy to be called your son, | 25:56 | |
treat me as one of your hired servants. | 25:59 | |
And he arose and came to his father. | 26:01 | |
But while he was yet at a distance, | 26:04 | |
his father saw him and had compassion | 26:06 | |
and ran and embraced and kissed him. | 26:09 | |
And the son said to him, "Father, | 26:11 | |
I have sinned against heaven and before you, | 26:14 | |
I am no longer worthy to be called your son. | 26:16 | |
But the father said to the servants | 26:19 | |
"Bring quickly the best robe and put it on him, | 26:21 | |
put a ring on his hand and shoes on his feet | 26:24 | |
and bring the fatted calf and kill it | 26:27 | |
and let us eat and make merry | 26:30 | |
for this my son was dead and is alive again. | 26:31 | |
He is lost and now he is found. | 26:36 | |
And they began to make merry. | 26:39 | |
Now his eldest son was in the field. | 26:41 | |
As he came and drew near to the house | 26:44 | |
he heard music and dancing | 26:47 | |
and he called one of the servants and asked what this meant. | 26:49 | |
And he said to him, | 26:52 | |
"Your brother has come and your father has killed | 26:53 | |
the fatted calf, because he received him safe and sound." | 26:56 | |
But he was angry and refused to go in. | 27:00 | |
His father came out and entreated him, | 27:03 | |
but he answered his father, | 27:05 | |
"Lo these many years I've served you | 27:06 | |
and I've never disobeyed your command | 27:09 | |
yet you never gave me a kid | 27:11 | |
that I might make merry with my friends. | 27:13 | |
But when this sons of yours came, | 27:16 | |
who has devoured and living with harlots, | 27:20 | |
you killed for him the fatted calf." | 27:22 | |
And he said to him, "Son, you're always with me | 27:25 | |
and all that is yours is mine. | 27:28 | |
It was fitting to make merry and be glad | 27:31 | |
for this your brother was dead, is now alive. | 27:33 | |
He was lost and he is now found." | 27:37 | |
Thus ends the reading of God's word. | 27:41 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 27:45 | |
♪ Glory to the Father ♪ | 27:54 | |
♪ And to the Son ♪ | 27:58 | |
♪ And to the Holy Ghost ♪ | 28:01 | |
♪ As it was in the beginning ♪ | 28:07 | |
♪ Is now and ever shall be ♪ | 28:11 | |
♪ World without end ♪ | 28:16 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 28:19 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 28:21 | |
- | Let us affirm what we believe. | 28:29 |
- | We believe in God who has created and is creating, | 28:33 |
who has come and the truly human Jesus | 28:39 | |
to reconcile and make new | 28:42 | |
who works in us and others by the spirit. | 28:45 | |
We trust God who calls us to be the church | 28:49 | |
to celebrate life and its fullness, | 28:55 | |
to love and serve us others, | 28:58 | |
to seek justice and resist evil. | 29:01 | |
To proclaim Jesus crucified and risen | 29:05 | |
our judge and our hope. | 29:09 | |
In life, | 29:12 | |
in death, | 29:13 | |
in life beyond death, | 29:15 | |
God is with us, | 29:17 | |
we are not alone. | 29:20 | |
Thanks be to God. | 29:22 | |
- | The Lord be with you. | 29:24 |
- | And with your spirit. | 29:27 |
- | Let us pray. | 29:28 |
Almighty and loving God | 29:40 | |
you are the source and the end of our life, | 29:43 | |
and the light also of our pilgrimage. | 29:47 | |
Grant your grace so that the good in us | 29:52 | |
may prevail over the evil | 29:55 | |
so that everything in us may be brought in harmony | 29:59 | |
with your will | 30:02 | |
and we may be enabled to live in charity with our neighbors, | 30:04 | |
our brothers and sisters. | 30:08 | |
Oh Lord, you are the refuge of your children | 30:13 | |
in all generations | 30:15 | |
enlarge, our faith in love | 30:18 | |
so that we may pray truly for the needs beyond our own. | 30:21 | |
We pray for our country and its leaders | 30:28 | |
and the leaders of all the countries of this world. | 30:31 | |
Keep them on the paths of justice. | 30:36 | |
We pray for your church throughout the world | 30:40 | |
and for the all those who do acts of mercy, | 30:44 | |
that each may serve you more truly, | 30:48 | |
according to his or her vocation. | 30:51 | |
We pray for those who work with their hands, | 30:57 | |
that they may know the dignity of their work. | 31:01 | |
We pray for those who care for the sick, | 31:06 | |
that they may be a comfort and a healing source. | 31:10 | |
And we pray, | 31:15 | |
especially for those who work in this institution, | 31:16 | |
that all parts of it may be obedient to your will. | 31:21 | |
And now, oh God, more particularly, | 31:27 | |
we pray for the millions of distressed | 31:29 | |
and dispossessed anguished souls who have been uprooted | 31:33 | |
by natural disaster, by oppression, by conflict. | 31:39 | |
Oh Lord, save us from heedlessness | 31:46 | |
and a world full of sorrow and from self-righteousness. | 31:48 | |
For we know in our world, | 31:55 | |
the sins of even the most wicked trace, | 31:58 | |
some counsel. | 32:00 | |
With the sins of the most righteous, | 32:03 | |
cover us all by your mercy | 32:06 | |
and lead us to a fuller understanding of your will. | 32:09 | |
Oh God, you have taught us to pray | 32:15 | |
for the coming of your kingdom on this earth. | 32:17 | |
Give us grace to build our communities | 32:20 | |
after the fashion of your kingdom, | 32:23 | |
to set no boundaries around them | 32:26 | |
which you would not set, | 32:28 | |
to quiet the turmoil within them by your love | 32:31 | |
and to work more diligently for justice in them | 32:36 | |
because our final security lies in you. | 32:41 | |
And hear us now, oh God, is we lift to you | 32:47 | |
those whose grief and problems and sorrow and pain | 32:50 | |
rest heavy on our hearts. | 32:55 | |
Send your spirit to bless these people | 33:06 | |
and use us as instruments of your love and blessing | 33:10 | |
and hear us now, as we pray the prayer, | 33:16 | |
Jesus taught us. | 33:20 | |
- | Our Father who art in heaven, | 33:23 |
hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, | 33:27 | |
thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven. | 33:32 | |
Give us this day our daily bread | 33:37 | |
and forgive us our trespasses | 33:40 | |
as we forgive those who trespass against us. | 33:43 | |
And lead us not in temptation, | 33:47 | |
but deliver us from evil, for thine is the kingdom | 33:50 | |
and the power, and the glory | 33:55 | |
Amen. | 33:58 | |
We welcome you who are worshiping | 34:01 | |
in Duke Chapel with us today. | 34:03 | |
And those of you who join us at home | 34:06 | |
for this service of worship. | 34:10 | |
Important in this chapel | 34:13 | |
is the breadth of our ministry, | 34:15 | |
the many opportunities for worship and service | 34:18 | |
which are made available to us. | 34:22 | |
Please note some announcements in your bulletin, | 34:25 | |
particularly that this is the week | 34:28 | |
that we have the opportunity to participate in | 34:31 | |
The Word Became Flesh. | 34:34 | |
A communication of the word of God, | 34:37 | |
through reading of scripture, | 34:40 | |
with music and dance and drama. | 34:42 | |
And we encourage you to take advantage | 34:45 | |
of this distinctive opportunity | 34:48 | |
with the assurance that you will leave, | 34:51 | |
having experienced and understood the holy scriptures | 34:54 | |
in a new and profound way. | 34:58 | |
An elephant in prayer. | 35:02 | |
One of the many people who is helping with this program | 35:03 | |
has agreed to open Paige box office | 35:06 | |
from 12 to one o'clock today for your convenience, | 35:10 | |
so that you may get a ticket for this celebration. | 35:14 | |
It's most heartening that the Duke and Durham communities | 35:19 | |
work together in so many areas, | 35:24 | |
especially in areas of great social need. | 35:26 | |
We saw this and the woodcutting project | 35:30 | |
and today all of the offering | 35:33 | |
will go to another important community project | 35:37 | |
Meals on Wheels. | 35:41 | |
And for every dollar you contribute, | 35:43 | |
you will really be contributing $4 to help provide | 35:46 | |
a hot meal for those persons who for many reasons | 35:51 | |
would not otherwise eat adequately. | 35:54 | |
You will get more information about this | 35:58 | |
if you read the insert in your bulletin. | 36:00 | |
Those of us who eat well | 36:03 | |
are asked or encouraged | 36:07 | |
to be obedient and share as generously as we can, | 36:11 | |
that others may have some food. | 36:16 | |
On Palm Sunday, April the third, | 36:20 | |
we will participate in the Crop Walk for Hunger. | 36:22 | |
For more information, you may call the crop office | 36:26 | |
688-3843. | 36:30 | |
We give thanks for the opportunities we have | 36:36 | |
to serve those who need our care and our love. | 36:39 | |
- | I'm gonna take just a moment now. | 37:04 |
The Sunday, before the choir left | 37:08 | |
to go to New York for the concert in Carnegie Hall, | 37:10 | |
we asked them to stand and offered a prayer. | 37:14 | |
I'm going to ask them to stand again now, if you will. | 37:19 | |
Some of you, probably a handful of you | 37:29 | |
who are present this morning, | 37:31 | |
were in Carnegie Hall | 37:32 | |
a week ago, Wednesday night, | 37:35 | |
and had the opportunity to express your appreciation | 37:36 | |
for the beautiful music that they gave | 37:41 | |
to all of us that night. | 37:43 | |
I'm gonna ask those in the congregation now | 37:46 | |
to stand if you will. | 37:48 | |
And let's all join with a warm hand of applause | 37:54 | |
and thanksgiving to the choir, | 37:58 | |
not just for Carnegie Hall's performance and concert, | 38:00 | |
but for the awesome and beautiful | 38:05 | |
and inspiring, | 38:10 | |
moving | 38:12 | |
worship of God, | 38:15 | |
which they lead us in here Sunday after Sunday after Sunday. | 38:16 | |
(congregation applauding) | 38:23 | |
Thank you. | 38:45 | |
The gospel lesson for today | 38:53 | |
for the fourth Sunday in lent is a passage of scripture | 38:54 | |
most familiar to all of us, | 38:57 | |
probably one of the two or three most familiar passages | 38:59 | |
in all of scripture. | 39:03 | |
We have read it, we have heard it read. | 39:05 | |
We have heard sermons preached about it. | 39:07 | |
We have studied it over and over and over again. | 39:09 | |
There mere mentioning of the words, | 39:13 | |
the parable of the prodigal son | 39:15 | |
or the parable of the waiting father | 39:17 | |
or the parable of the elder son | 39:19 | |
calls to mind, all kinds of images | 39:22 | |
and stirs in us a wide range | 39:25 | |
of feelings immediately, spontaneously. | 39:28 | |
At once we see the picture of the father | 39:33 | |
with arms outstretched and opened wide | 39:35 | |
receiving the younger son back home | 39:38 | |
as we have seen portrayed in many, many paintings. | 39:40 | |
Or we see the picture of the elder brother | 39:44 | |
standing aside with sneers of anger | 39:46 | |
and contempt on his lips, | 39:49 | |
as he sees all of the celebrating | 39:51 | |
about the other son's return. | 39:54 | |
Or we see the painful picture of the younger brother | 39:57 | |
in some squalor of deprivation, broken and beaten | 40:00 | |
while all the time we know what he has momentarily forgotten | 40:05 | |
that real life waits for him back home. | 40:09 | |
The full range of our emotions is touched and stirred | 40:15 | |
as this passage in 21 short verses | 40:18 | |
moves from confrontation to separation, | 40:22 | |
to loneliness, to desecration and dehumanization. | 40:27 | |
To recognition and self-awareness, to contrition, to return, | 40:32 | |
to reunion, to rejoicing, to celebration, to envy, | 40:36 | |
to acceptance and to love. | 40:40 | |
Pain, joy, sadness, estrangement, finding oneself, | 40:43 | |
losing oneself, finding oneself again, | 40:48 | |
excitement, boredom, emptiness. | 40:52 | |
How much of life, how much of ourselves, | 40:55 | |
how much indeed of God do we find | 41:00 | |
in this simply profound story | 41:02 | |
filled with both every day and ultimate meaning. | 41:05 | |
Until quite recently, | 41:12 | |
I thought that there was only one prodigal in this story. | 41:14 | |
We all know about him. | 41:21 | |
The younger son is the real prodigal. | 41:23 | |
He is the one who comes to his father, | 41:27 | |
claims his inheritance, bids farewell to his family | 41:30 | |
and goes away to find out what life is really all about. | 41:34 | |
In the process he finds a father | 41:39 | |
who asks no questions about where he is going | 41:43 | |
or what he is going to do or who he is going to be with. | 41:47 | |
He finds a father who puts no conditions | 41:52 | |
on the rightful portion of goods that is to come to the son. | 41:54 | |
He finds a father who simply listens to his request, | 42:01 | |
respects his own judgment as best for the moment | 42:06 | |
and responds to do exactly as he wants him to do. | 42:10 | |
He finds a father whose love is great enough, | 42:15 | |
great enough, even to let him go. | 42:19 | |
And that perhaps when the occasion calls for it | 42:24 | |
is the greatest love we can show to another person. | 42:29 | |
The father does not force the son to stay at home | 42:34 | |
for the son, the younger son must have his freedom. | 42:38 | |
The younger son says something like this. | 42:41 | |
"I want to be free to be just me, | 42:43 | |
to get away just one time | 42:48 | |
to be out from under all the rules and regulations | 42:50 | |
and restrictions just once. | 42:54 | |
I'll come back, sure, I will. | 42:56 | |
But I need some time on my own to think for myself | 42:59 | |
to reason for myself, to decide for myself, | 43:02 | |
to be myself who ever I am | 43:06 | |
and not to be who mama or daddy or family make me to be." | 43:10 | |
Perhaps he is like Esther Hoffman, | 43:16 | |
as she sings in A Star is Born, the words, | 43:18 | |
"I was warned as a child of 13, not to act too strong, | 43:22 | |
try to act like you belong, but don't push girl. | 43:27 | |
Save your time and trouble, don't misbehave. | 43:31 | |
I was raised in a no you don't world, overrun with rules, | 43:34 | |
memorize your lines and move as directed." | 43:40 | |
And the younger son wanted to be out from under the rules | 43:46 | |
to hear no more, no you don't or no more be a good boy now. | 43:48 | |
He wanted to break some relief, a change. | 43:54 | |
He wanted to have his fling. | 43:59 | |
So his oughts test out his feelings and his fantasies. | 44:00 | |
He really had no intention of being evil, | 44:05 | |
of being a real rascal. | 44:07 | |
All he wanted was to live a real life, | 44:08 | |
even if for just a little while. | 44:11 | |
And so I asked you and me, | 44:14 | |
have we not all felt this same urge at one time or other? | 44:18 | |
Do we not identify with the inner arguments | 44:24 | |
and the struggles and the movements | 44:27 | |
that are going on in this younger son? | 44:28 | |
He left. | 44:30 | |
He had his inheritance. | 44:32 | |
He took all that he had, and he went into a far country. | 44:33 | |
Then Jesus tells us there, | 44:37 | |
he squandered his property in loose living. | 44:41 | |
Now here's where we attach the word prodigal | 44:46 | |
to this story, | 44:48 | |
because the word prodigal is not used anywhere | 44:49 | |
in the parable itself. | 44:52 | |
Prodigal means extravagant, wasteful, | 44:54 | |
spendthrift, bountiful, lavish, | 44:57 | |
thus this son's wastefulness, | 45:01 | |
his wild and extravagant living give the most common name, | 45:04 | |
which we know to this particular parable. | 45:08 | |
We really don't know what he did | 45:11 | |
and our imaginations run wild | 45:13 | |
as we think about all the things that he might have done, | 45:15 | |
which really say all those things, | 45:18 | |
which we might like to do. | 45:19 | |
He squandered his possessions and he lived loosely. | 45:24 | |
Reading or hearing these words | 45:29 | |
we put our own values on what he did and how he did it, | 45:31 | |
but then Jesus said he came to himself. | 45:33 | |
And that if I must say so | 45:39 | |
is one of the most beautiful lines in all of literature | 45:42 | |
he or she came to himself or to herself | 45:48 | |
that it seems to me after all | 45:52 | |
is what life is really all about. | 45:54 | |
That we might at one point or another | 45:56 | |
at one time or another, in one way or another, | 45:58 | |
come to an awareness of who we are and whose we are | 46:01 | |
that is come to a real awareness of our own being. | 46:04 | |
I don't really care. | 46:11 | |
Now your far country or my far country | 46:12 | |
or your squandering, or my squandering may have been | 46:14 | |
to waste years and years of fumbling | 46:18 | |
and falling and failing | 46:20 | |
as we have tried to find a suitable | 46:21 | |
and a satisfying vocation for our lives. | 46:25 | |
Your far country or mine, or your squandering or mine | 46:29 | |
may have been to suppress for years and years | 46:32 | |
our real potential as we have kept some essential | 46:35 | |
and important part of our personality ignored | 46:38 | |
or hidden away. | 46:41 | |
Or your far our country | 46:44 | |
or mine | 46:48 | |
may have been to sacrifice our own happiness | 46:50 | |
and the happiness of others | 46:52 | |
by pretending that all was well with us, | 46:53 | |
when we really were basically quite unhappy | 46:55 | |
and quite unfulfilled. | 47:00 | |
We may have squandered our talents. | 47:02 | |
Perhaps some of us, indeed, | 47:06 | |
some of us has squandered or mismanaged our marriages. | 47:09 | |
Some of us have wasted our good reputations. | 47:15 | |
Some of us have ruined or are ruining our bodies | 47:21 | |
and our minds. | 47:26 | |
Perhaps our feelings have been perverted | 47:29 | |
by envy or jealousy or hatred, | 47:32 | |
or maybe we have squandered our faith | 47:36 | |
and have lost | 47:41 | |
what once upon a time was beautiful and personal | 47:42 | |
and rich and real. | 47:46 | |
Now any part or all of these things | 47:49 | |
may be true for any one of us | 47:51 | |
and I believe that some of it surely is true for each of us. | 47:53 | |
So there's the prodigal that we've all heard about, | 48:03 | |
but there's another prodigal. | 48:08 | |
There's the prodigal elder brother. | 48:11 | |
The one who was extravagant in his desire for security | 48:16 | |
in his wanting to play it safe, | 48:21 | |
in his longing to be at home and to stay at home. | 48:24 | |
Now he takes his ethical and religious | 48:29 | |
and personal and family duties in bitter earnest | 48:31 | |
in his life, at least as we read about it | 48:36 | |
in this particular story, there is no risk, | 48:38 | |
no adventure, no excitement. | 48:41 | |
He feels as he tells his father | 48:43 | |
that he has been disadvantaged, that he has been deprived | 48:45 | |
the real fulfillment in life, | 48:49 | |
that he has never known real sparkle and zest in life, | 48:50 | |
never had any wild consuming passion. | 48:55 | |
He's known no festivals and no celebrations. | 49:00 | |
Life has been tiresome and tedious and very serious | 49:03 | |
and very monotonous. | 49:08 | |
And as I look around the Duke campus, | 49:09 | |
I see, oh, so many, | 49:12 | |
oh, far too many | 49:15 | |
for whom life has become tedious and serious and monotonous. | 49:17 | |
He has forgotten that often the good things in life | 49:25 | |
and safety don't really go hand in hand. | 49:31 | |
Life needs to have some daring, challenging, | 49:37 | |
changing, push and shove, trial and error, | 49:40 | |
succeed and fail and succeed and fail again, | 49:43 | |
some win and lose moments in it if you will. | 49:47 | |
Have we in the church of Jesus Christ today | 49:52 | |
learned only too well | 49:55 | |
the lessons of life | 49:58 | |
and have we adopted them only to, well, | 50:00 | |
those lessons, which the extravagant | 50:02 | |
self saving, security seeking elder brother | 50:04 | |
was demonstrating in his life? | 50:08 | |
Are we the faithful stay at home, play it safe, | 50:11 | |
never risk for one might get hurt church members? | 50:16 | |
Are we the model don't get involved, be nice to everybody. | 50:20 | |
Don't hurt anybody's feelings, kind of Christians? | 50:23 | |
The ones who play it close to home | 50:26 | |
who protect their tradition and maintain the status quo? | 50:28 | |
The older brother, I believe | 50:33 | |
really does represent much that is a part | 50:39 | |
of those of us in the church today. | 50:41 | |
For there are many of us good people, quote unquote, | 50:45 | |
whose faith in Christ never makes us happy | 50:49 | |
or excited about life. | 50:53 | |
Comfortable, yes. | 50:54 | |
Happy, no. | 50:56 | |
There are many of us decent, | 50:59 | |
honest Christians with integrity who are serious minded | 51:01 | |
and have Goodwill in our hearts. | 51:04 | |
But for many of us, church is meaningless | 51:05 | |
and our relationship with God is most boring. | 51:08 | |
Let's look at the elder brother again. | 51:14 | |
He has lived his life from his childhood up | 51:15 | |
and he still lives every day and every night | 51:18 | |
in the atmosphere and in the protection | 51:20 | |
of the father's house. | 51:22 | |
Naturally, he loves the father | 51:23 | |
and he loves this environment. | 51:25 | |
But the fact that he loves his father | 51:27 | |
and is loved in return | 51:32 | |
is so taken for granted that he is hardly conscious of it. | 51:33 | |
And nobody seems to speak about it. | 51:38 | |
To him it would have seemed ridiculous | 51:41 | |
to go up to his father and say, "Father today, | 51:43 | |
I really love you quite especially." | 51:45 | |
For we do not reflect on what is as normal | 51:48 | |
and near as the air we breathe, | 51:51 | |
nor do we give thanks for it. | 51:57 | |
And how tragic our lives when lived this way, | 52:01 | |
How tragic that life with all its mystery and wonder, | 52:05 | |
and awesomeness and excitement can become dull | 52:09 | |
and humdrum and routine and monotonous, | 52:14 | |
but for oh so many, | 52:18 | |
it is just that. | 52:22 | |
How tragic when we take ourselves and others for granted | 52:25 | |
in marriage, | 52:30 | |
in friendships, | 52:33 | |
in business, | 52:35 | |
in doctor, patient relationships. | 52:37 | |
In teacher, student relationships | 52:40 | |
in brother, sister, | 52:43 | |
sister, brother, | 52:44 | |
mother, child, | 52:46 | |
father, child, | 52:47 | |
child, father relationships. | 52:49 | |
In the deepest and most important areas of our lives | 52:52 | |
it seems we take others very, very much for granted. | 52:55 | |
Talking with the football team on Thursday | 53:04 | |
as we gathered to share a few minutes | 53:06 | |
about Mike Suglia's death. | 53:09 | |
I told them that one thought had been running over | 53:12 | |
and over in my mind, | 53:15 | |
ever since I received the first call last Saturday | 53:16 | |
of his sudden tragic death. | 53:19 | |
The thought | 53:21 | |
that life, | 53:23 | |
every moment of it | 53:25 | |
is a precious irreplaceable treasure | 53:28 | |
for when it is over, it is over. | 53:32 | |
So let us not take it for granted. | 53:37 | |
Last Sunday night, I was sitting, | 53:42 | |
talking with some 50 or so high school | 53:44 | |
and junior high school students at a church in Charlotte | 53:46 | |
talking about what I feel is a very basic problem | 53:50 | |
in the church and in our society today. | 53:52 | |
The problem I said that I believe | 53:54 | |
that there are countless numbers | 53:57 | |
of young people | 54:00 | |
and children | 54:03 | |
today | 54:04 | |
who think that their parents would be just as happy | 54:06 | |
if their children had never been born. | 54:09 | |
The survey, which, who was it? | 54:13 | |
Ann Landys or Dean Alby one of them did, | 54:14 | |
which said in response to a question, | 54:17 | |
if you had it to do over again, would you have children? | 54:20 | |
71% of them, wasn't it? | 54:22 | |
Who were parents who replied and said | 54:24 | |
they would not have children. | 54:26 | |
So many children and young people today | 54:35 | |
have parents who really don't love them | 54:37 | |
and don't give a hang about what happens to them. | 54:40 | |
And so I said to these young people, | 54:43 | |
if you have a mother and or a father who loves you, | 54:45 | |
then you go home tonight and hug his or her neck, | 54:48 | |
or both of them in the necks | 54:50 | |
and say a prayer of Thanksgiving. | 54:51 | |
And if you don't, | 54:53 | |
if you have a mother or father or both who don't love you, | 54:54 | |
then go home and you hug their necks | 54:57 | |
and pray a prayer that love will come into your home. | 54:59 | |
Oh, let's not take our relationships for granted. | 55:06 | |
Jesus Christ, I believe meant for our lives | 55:14 | |
to be many, many, many things. | 55:16 | |
But I believe he absolutely did not intend for our lives | 55:18 | |
to be dull or uninteresting or monotonous. | 55:21 | |
So prodigals number one, and number two, | 55:26 | |
the younger brother who came to his senses | 55:30 | |
arose and came to his father. | 55:32 | |
The younger brother finally came to know | 55:34 | |
what repentance and confession and forgiveness | 55:36 | |
are all about. | 55:38 | |
He had heard and perhaps ahd understood the meaning | 55:43 | |
of words like those, | 55:46 | |
which some of us saw while we were in New York, | 55:48 | |
the play, A Chorus Line, | 55:51 | |
thanks to the gift of some very dear friends. | 55:54 | |
But some of us saw the play, A Chorus Line. | 55:57 | |
And the casting director is asking each person | 56:00 | |
who wants to be in the chorus line | 56:02 | |
to tell his or her life story. | 56:04 | |
And Paul San Marco tells his story, all alone, | 56:06 | |
standing out on the stage | 56:09 | |
and what a sorted sad, painful story it is. | 56:10 | |
And finally, when he gets near the end, | 56:15 | |
the last few words are uttered and in the midst of tears | 56:16 | |
and utter weeping, | 56:20 | |
and the casting director from in back says to him, | 56:22 | |
"Oh, | 56:25 | |
but Paul, | 56:27 | |
all of that is in the past now, | 56:28 | |
that's why it is called the past." | 56:32 | |
The younger brother heard and understood | 56:38 | |
something about what it was to say, | 56:41 | |
"Oh, but that's all the past now, | 56:43 | |
that's why it's called the past." | 56:46 | |
Or it's like Henry Nouwen writes in his book, | 56:49 | |
Reaching Out, "When God has become our shepherd, our refuge, | 56:51 | |
our fortress then we can reach out to him | 56:55 | |
in the midst of our brokenness | 56:58 | |
and feel at home with him while we are still on the way, | 56:59 | |
no matter where we're going. | 57:03 | |
In the midst of our brokenness with God, | 57:06 | |
we can still feel at home." | 57:08 | |
Or as Morris J. Nidinthall writes in Faith, | 57:12 | |
A Posture for Living. | 57:15 | |
"Jesus Christ breaks the tyranny | 57:16 | |
of the past by his forgiveness | 57:19 | |
and the terror of the future by his promise." | 57:22 | |
Power, | 57:28 | |
God in Christ breaks the tyranny of the past, | 57:29 | |
whatever my past is, by his forgiveness. | 57:32 | |
And he breaks the terror of the future, | 57:36 | |
no matter what that is by his promise. | 57:38 | |
And the younger brother, that first prodigal | 57:41 | |
heard some of that message. | 57:44 | |
The elder brother though, was angry, | 57:46 | |
angry, and he lashed out at his father, | 57:50 | |
but his father said simply, | 57:53 | |
"My son, | 57:56 | |
why are you angry? | 58:00 | |
You are always with me. | 58:02 | |
And all that I have is yours also." | 58:04 | |
He didn't react in anger. | 58:10 | |
He didn't react with hostility. | 58:13 | |
He wasn't condescending. | 58:16 | |
All he said was, "My son. | 58:19 | |
All that I have is yours. | 58:22 | |
You've been with me all the time." | 58:24 | |
The older brother came to know | 58:29 | |
as Robert Frost wrote one time, "Home is something somehow | 58:30 | |
you don't have to deserve, it is yours." | 58:34 | |
Or as the poet wrote, | 58:40 | |
"No fact we ever learned will tell us | 58:42 | |
who we are or why we are, | 58:44 | |
or what life or love or death or beauty means | 58:46 | |
that comes from experience." | 58:49 | |
Or the older brother could get angry and still feel loved | 58:54 | |
and still love, because the love he and his father shared | 58:57 | |
must have been real. | 59:01 | |
He must've felt love and loved very much | 59:04 | |
because you see | 59:07 | |
we as human beings | 59:10 | |
show our most precious selves, our true selves, | 59:13 | |
never to those whom we fear, | 59:17 | |
but only to those we love. | 59:22 | |
And only to those who love us. | 59:25 | |
Two sons, two children of the father, different children, | 59:30 | |
drastically different both affirmed, both accepted, | 59:33 | |
both received lovingly by the father. | 59:36 | |
Here we see who the real prodigal is in this story. | 59:40 | |
Here's the real spend thrift, the real extravagant one, | 59:45 | |
the lavish and bountiful one, | 59:50 | |
the father whose love and grace | 59:52 | |
just simply a bound in plenty. | 59:54 | |
First for the younger son who comes home in repentance | 59:56 | |
and then for the elder son who stayed home and gets angry. | 59:59 | |
Here was home for both the younger and the older, | 1:00:06 | |
here was where as someone has said, what a real home is, | 1:00:11 | |
here was where they could ask questions | 1:00:15 | |
without fear and could experiment with it life | 1:00:17 | |
without risk of rejection. | 1:00:20 | |
Here was home for both the younger and the older, | 1:00:25 | |
where they both knew that they were children | 1:00:28 | |
who would be received with love and with grace, | 1:00:30 | |
no matter what they had done or said. | 1:00:32 | |
Sometimes I see myself as the younger child, | 1:00:39 | |
the one who selfishly, carelessly, | 1:00:44 | |
recklessly and thoughtlessly squanders some | 1:00:46 | |
or perhaps all of my birthright. | 1:00:51 | |
Do you ever see yourself as that child? | 1:00:55 | |
Sometimes I see myself as the older child, | 1:01:02 | |
the one who cautiously and carefully, safely, | 1:01:04 | |
and discreetly saves and protects my precious self | 1:01:07 | |
and all that is mine. | 1:01:12 | |
Do you ever see yourself as this child? | 1:01:17 | |
Well, the real and the ultimate message of this story | 1:01:23 | |
is not about the prodigal children, | 1:01:27 | |
but about the prodigal father | 1:01:33 | |
who lavishes love on every child. | 1:01:36 | |
Both the one who returns in repentance and confession | 1:01:42 | |
and the one who burst forth in anger and hostility. | 1:01:47 | |
The ultimate theme of this story | 1:01:51 | |
is not the faithlessness of us as children, | 1:01:52 | |
but the faithfulness of God | 1:01:56 | |
who loves us. | 1:02:00 | |
Real secret of this story is | 1:02:02 | |
that wherever we are or wherever we have been, | 1:02:06 | |
whoever we are or whoever we have been, | 1:02:08 | |
there is a homecoming for each of us, | 1:02:11 | |
for there is a home and a God who loves us waiting. | 1:02:13 | |
There's an old, old hymn | 1:02:19 | |
that calls up all kinds of inner feelings in me | 1:02:21 | |
because it was sung as I grew up in churches. | 1:02:25 | |
And it was used as an alter call hymn | 1:02:28 | |
to try to get everybody, | 1:02:30 | |
to walk that saw dust trail and come down to the alter | 1:02:31 | |
and get their hearts right with God. | 1:02:34 | |
But my friends there's real power in the hymn. | 1:02:36 | |
Jesus is Tenderly Calling Thee Home. | 1:02:40 | |
Why from the sunshine of love wilt thou roam | 1:02:45 | |
farther and farther away. | 1:02:49 | |
"Jesus is calling the weary to rest. | 1:02:53 | |
Bring him thy burden and thy wilt be blessed. | 1:02:57 | |
He will not turn thee away. | 1:03:01 | |
Jesus is waiting, Oh, come to him now. | 1:03:05 | |
Come with thy sins at his feet, | 1:03:09 | |
lowly bow | 1:03:13 | |
come and no longer delay. | 1:03:14 | |
Jesus is pleading Oh, listen to his voice. | 1:03:17 | |
They who believe in his name shall rejoice. | 1:03:21 | |
Jesus is calling, | 1:03:24 | |
is tenderly calling, | 1:03:27 | |
is calling today. | 1:03:30 | |
Bring quickly the best robe | 1:03:35 | |
and put it on him, | 1:03:39 | |
Let us eat and make merry. | 1:03:41 | |
My child | 1:03:45 | |
you are always with me | 1:03:48 | |
and all that I have is yours as well." | 1:03:51 | |
The parables, | 1:04:00 | |
the prodigals in the parable. | 1:04:01 | |
Amen. | 1:04:07 | |
Amen. | 1:04:09 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 1:04:16 | |
(organ drowns music) | 1:05:04 | |
♪ Oh pass me not ♪ | 1:08:37 | |
♪ From way from your countenance ♪ | 1:08:41 | |
♪ And take away ♪ | 1:08:46 | |
♪ Holy spirit from me ♪ | 1:08:52 | |
♪ Holy spirit from me ♪ | 1:09:04 | |
♪ Oh pass me not ♪ | 1:09:06 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 1:09:10 | |
(organ drowns music) | 1:12:03 | |
- | Oh, God, most merciful and gracious | 1:17:08 |
from whom we receive all that we have and all that we are, | 1:17:13 | |
accept this offering of your people. | 1:17:18 | |
Remember in your love, those who have brought it | 1:17:22 | |
and those for whom it is given. | 1:17:26 | |
And so follow it with your blessing, | 1:17:29 | |
that those who are hungry | 1:17:32 | |
will be nourished in body and in spirit. | 1:17:34 | |
Amen. | 1:17:39 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 1:17:43 | |
(organ drowns music) | 1:18:10 | |
- | May the God of hope, | 1:21:14 |
fill you with all joy and peace | 1:21:17 | |
so that you may abound in love and hope | 1:21:21 | |
by the power of the Holy Spirit. | 1:21:25 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:21:39 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:21:44 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:21:50 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:21:58 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:22:04 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:22:14 | |
♪ Amen ♪ | 1:22:29 | |
(soft orchestral music) | 1:22:49 |